Why are so many attractive women single?

[Anonymous]

If you're an attractive woman on here, you're probably gonna get offended by my question; But the truth hurts. Some attractive women are single because they always have a b***h shield up, have too many options, standards are way too high, tend to be high maintenance, she is most likely taken, has a mean over possessive boyfriend, and some just want to remain single.

However, if an attractive woman is young. She mainly parties and gets drunk and f**ks random guys. When she hits her 30's and she has had sex with 70-180 guys, she wants to settle and find a sucker to help take care of the bad boys kids she had with him. Only to find out he bailed on her lol. Plus you need money to date an attractive woman.

That's why I won't ask attractive women out, I've been called handsome before but I know to date within own league now. The less attractive women will be there for me, an extremely beautiful woman will bail when times get hard. What do you think? You can get mad at all you want, this the truth LOL!

[harveykinkle]

We have the "bitch shield" up because some men are dogs and we're sick of it. We also know randoms hitting on us are only into our looks too so that's why we don't care too much. It's one thing if it's people who actually know us but it's annoying when we know you wouldn't be talking to us if we didn't look the way we do.

I think you're being quite presumptuous though. Not all attractive people sleep around with hundreds of men nor have "bad boy kids" from past lovers. We don't drink all the time, have high standards or expect anything more from the men we date than those who are "less attractive". Looks are just that - looks; nothing more.

As for standards - "attractive women" are generally those who put effort into their appearance. We do our hair, makeup and choose clothes that suit us and project a certain image. We exercise and eat healthily. THIS is why attractive people want to be with someone else attractive - they want someone who puts equal effort into appearance. If you don't care about yours you really can't expect someone who cares about theirs to be into you. The people we date are a reflection of us and that's why we want to be with someone like us.

I am single by choice - I'd rather be alone than with a guy who only cares about the way I look which is all I have been finding lately. I'm also working on getting my career and my own life sorted out before I bring someone else into the mix. Also, if I like a man I have absolutely no problem pursuing him.

[Anonymous]

thats not attractive girls, its skanky girls. I've been single for my whole life and I'm only a teenager but everyones had a boyfriend by age 9 these days. and plenty of guys think I'm hot but I've only been asked out a little even though I'm sure lots of guys have liked me but they don't ask me out. for me the reason I've turned people down is because I like someone else. I'm not gonna like someone just becasue they like me, that's a sign of being desperate and I'm not concieted but I'm confident so .

[Asker]

What kind of parents would let their kids date at age 9 anyways?! Parenting fail.

[Opinion Owner]

some 6 year olds have had their first kiss..idk I'm way behind

[Asker]

Like that's any better.

[blackwaterhattie]

What I would really like to know is why you posted this "question". You have already announced that THIS IS THE TRUTH LOL! so... what do you want? You want people to agree with you? You need some validation, Toots? Are you lonely? Do you want me to adopt you? I could teach you some stuff. For instance, I could instruct you in how not to make sweeping generalizations and make yourself look like a putz. You seem like you need a hand with that. Let me know- I'm here for you.

[MtnDewMan]

you are a jaded guy that obviously has been shunned or turned down by beautiful women. let me run this through for you, they aren't bitches you need to speak to them like people and in such a away that you don't come off as just trying to get into their pants. women are no objects or trophies, all women with extra pounds or skinny;beautiful or not so much; all of them have feelings. so you are saying a person can't enjoy themselves with drinking and partying and having sex? I think you are angry because you don't get to enjoy these things like you want to. you have a right and you should have high standards because I don't think any one of these ladies would want to date a jerk like you. that being said you date within your own league now? how many leagues do you think there are? so you are telling us that you don't believe you can date within this so called league you have placed attractive women in huh? Once you put people on a pedestal its all over for you. you need to rethink your views on women and get things straight. I really don't know why you bad mouth women for not putting up with you

[Asker]

Everything you said, I've tried. They can be mean, what guy wants a mean girlfriend? Don't answer that.

[Anonymous]

they are too god damn picky!

[Asker]

Legit answer

[loveless123]

being picky? or having standards that are too high for you to match?

[Opinion Owner]

probably the second one you mentioned

[Asker]

There is a difference between having standards and being impossibly picky.

[Opinion Owner]

well they always want the guy that stands out the most

[Asker]

I'm screwed then.

[Anonymous]

I think you should meet my friends... all attractive single women in their early and mid 20s. Not one of us has slept with more than 2 guys... some of us are still virgins. We don't drink and party. We're not high maintenance, we make our own money. We're allowed to have standards. Maybe you should be asking yourself why these girls always have a shield up around you.

Someone is just bitter ;) Handsome is as handsome does... if you open your mouth and sound like a jerk, looks mean nothing. If anything, the guys bail when times get tough.

[Asker]

Well if that's true, you and your friends are rare. And the way I've been treated by women, you bet your ass I'm bitter.

[Opinion Owner]

We're not rare, we're just harder to find. And we have no time for guys who let their past bring them down.

[Asker]

That's what I meant by rare, good women are becoming harder and harder to find. Makes me wish I was born in a previous generation. This one sucks

[kangaru]

I agreed

[kovalinkie19]

Guys are looking for hollywood model babes and girls look for their prince charming.

I think it's about even.

[LovelySerene]

This is true with SOME attractive girls, but not all...It's the exact same thing as saying that "all attractive guys are douche bags" Which is obviously not true.

[NoirPrincess]

wow lol " you need money to date an attractive women" ahahaha. I agree they probably have high standards. But maybe she has been hurt in the past.

[Asker]

No, attractive women won't date you unless you're an athlete of some sorts

[findloveandkeepit]

no , pretty people get hurt too. and you don't have to be an athlete playing football or wrestling or something. I'm more attracted to the surfer/skater/snowboarder type but everyone has different types.

[NoirPrincess]

skater boys yum

[MtnDewMan]

so after I posted my answer this guy blocked me. pathetic huh?

[1diamond]

Yeah maybe a shield because we get judged on solely our looks. And it's damn right annoying!

[kambo_trick3y]

The hatred flows strong in this one.

[Anonymous]

They are single since men are intimidated to appraoch them.

[Anonymous]

Way to generalize all women as if you have met all of them. You look so foolish

[Asker]

I only asked this question to piss women like you off. And it worked lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao I don't care. You're the one that looks really stupid right now

[Asker]

Why comment if you don't care? You obviously do.

[Opinion Owner]

Says the fool

[Anonymous]

Because a lot of guys are intimidated.

[lauramor]

I don't have a b**h shield up

[Anonymous]

*bitter virgin alert*

[Asker]

I'm not a virgin, far from it.