Why are so many black men on this site so racist and mean towards black women? Don’t they realize white women are just using and humiliating them?

[Jack9949]

I’m just sick and tired of all the black men on here trashing their own women.

Black men, why do you shame women of your own race?

Black women deserve respect. They aren’t the ones who bring up race constantly in every single issue. They aren’t the ones who kill members of their own community.

They’re the ones looking out for you every time the cops arrest you, and they still parent you even when it would’ve been easier for them to abort you.

Just understand that black women have no reason to be race loyal at this point.

Until then white women aren’t going to respect you either. And they will continue using you for short term benefits.

So if you’re happy with them waking you up at 3 in the morning to pee in your mouth so be it. Just know that no woman is truly attracted to people who hate their own kind.

I know some black men here deny everything I’m saying. And that’s why I’m here to give some examples.

In my private conversation with another user, he claimed to have a preference for black women. And yet all the questions on his account have been about how he can attract white women exclusively.

Am a black guy in georgia where the best place to meet white women and time of day or store?

Another user said “I’m not attracted to black women”. He’s incapable of finding beauty within his own race.

Can someone understand my struggles with dating white or Asian or Latina as a black guy? What do I do then?

And then here’s another black guy bitching about black women for no reason.

Why do black women piss & moan so much about society not finding them attractive then turn around & reject all the solid black men chasing after them?

I’ve seen so much hatred for black women coming from black men its unbelievable.

If you are a black man who respects black women please step up and condemn this vile behavior.

[DevilsAdvocator]

If you are a black male conceived in the USA, then you're 25x more likely to be killed by way of abortion or infanticide, by your own mother, than you are to be a homicide victim for the rest of your entire life- with Black women's abortion rates 5x higher than the average for the general population, and Black women selectively aborting their unborn sons to create one of the most disparate gender imbalances in the world. The biological average sex ratio at birth, for human beings as a species, is supposed to be roughly 1.05:1 (i. e, 201 males for every 200 females). For Black people in the USA though, this now stands at a record low, with more girls now being born to Black mothers than boys, with this phenomenon almost exclusively attributable to sex-selective abortions; and indicative of the fact that Black womens' bias towards daughters is on a par with Indian and Chinese families' bias towards sons (with their gender ratios at birth diverging from the biological norm by roughly the same amount).

Is it any more wonder, then, that we're mean towards, and prejudiced against, our Black women, than it is that Chinese and Indian women are always mean towards, and prejudiced against, their Chinese and Indian men? White men may well just be using and humiliating them, just the same as White women do with us, but at least they aren't actively trying to wipe us off the face of the earth, and killing off all of our unborn sons at an equal or faster rate than Chinese and Indian families kill off their unborn daughters. At least with them, we aren't bombarded with demands to "be grateful for the fact that you were even born, because you weren't the right gender to DESERVE to be born!"

[DevilsAdvocator]

Two pink downvotes, no pink upvotes, but absolutely no comebacks to dispute the argument. Does the truth- that black women in the USA kill off their unwanted black unborn sons at an even greater rate than Indian, or even Saudi Arabian, patriarchal households kill off their unwanted unborn daughters- hurt?

[RiverUndertheSkY]

You seriously need help …. Like seriously. Have you ever thought that maybe black women don’t want to give up there kids but in some circumstances have to? I mean you’re excluding the fact the most come from low income backgrounds and can’t afford to raise a child, or that abortion Cliniques tend to disportionately tagret minority communities. I don’t know what you grew up with but the only thing I’m getting from this projection of whatever your mom did to you onto other black women who have nothing to do with it. However I do feel sorry you had to go through that - just know black women have your back, at least when your not calling us child killers

[YHL6965]

I didn't know about this because I usually don't pay attention to race. It's a shame though because I think black women are so beautiful and unique in many ways. I may not be black but, black ladies, don't believe people who say you are trash. You have your own value, don't let others bring you down, you are worthy too.

[Sweetener_]

Black men, why do you shame women of your own race? ↗


This was me ranting about this.


Black men who disrespect their own race to uplift another are shameful. This nonsense has been going on for ages to the point that I'm no longer attracted to black guys.


Ok yes you like white women, you like latinas but can you state your preference withouth being a colorist? Black men always have something negative to say about our hair, our color, how they don't want their kids to be "darker than them" how black women are aggressive, nappy headed and so on. Worst part this has been normalized because thats what black kids go around saying. And when black women for example claim to like "white men" then they get mad. Sorry but I refused to get treated like thrash I deserve to be treated like a princess from someone who loves the beautiful skin that God blessed me and everything about me. Black women are starting to realise their worth and value and I love that.

And I want to clarify that not all black men are like that but when the majority of them are treating black women like thrash then there has to be a problem.

[amaguqe]

So you saw a lot of "black men" shaming "black women". Now you think that majority of the "black men" are bad because they shame women of "their own race"? I can only assume how much horrible experiences you had to have in order to discriminate "black men" like that (I'm not using the word discriminate to judge you).
What is truly horrifying to me is this blatant assignation of behavior to the skin color. It is something that I feel like most Americans do all the time. Aren't you afraid that you might do a lot of harm in the long run by putting people neatly into different race boxes? You might meet a love of your life and then dump him without you ever knowing it.

[Jack9949]

@amaguqe Dude she said she’s open to black men that treat her right. And she is not even American either

[Sweetener_]

@Jack9949 Exactly, thank you ✨

[menina]

This site is full of racists. I've noticed this trend of black men who don't like black women in music videos. Perhaps this isn't common in the US, but where I live black guys tend to put white girls on their videos to play their love interest. It pisses me off!!!
Even when I meet black guys in real life (where I live) 98% of the time their girlfriend is white. It makes me wonder if there's something wrong with black women.

The black guys who shame black women hate themselves and they see white women as a "trophy" . That is wrong at so many levels. I have no patience for those guys.

[Jack9949]

Interesting. So where do you live?

[menina]

In Portugal.

[Jack9949]

Weird. In Europe especially they seem pretty racist. I don’t actually have a problem with black women.

[menina]

And Portuguese people are racist. What happens is that these guys hate themselves and black people in general. So they don't mind being with racist women and deal with their racist families.
I'm glad you don't have a problem with black women.

[Jack9949]

@menina Absolutely. I just feel so bad for black women because the entire world just wants to shit on them for no reason.

[menina]

Thank you for the MHO! :)

[Jack9949]

And I met a black girl from Italy on here who said something pretty similar. Black men, why do you shame women of your own race? ↗

[menina]

Unfortunately that's true and it makes me sad to see black men hating black women.

[Jack9949]

Well the media seems to work against black women too. So many negative stereotypes they just shove down everyone’s throats.

[menina]

I can see where she comes from. Maybe it's common in Europe.

[Jack9949]

I mean black women here in America say things pretty similar. I don’t know why things would be similar tho. We’re an ocean apart

[menina]

That's absolutely true. It certainly doesn't help us.

[Jack9949]

I don’t know much about what its like in Africa though.

[menina]

I get you. Maybe it's because Europe and the US have many things in common.

[menina]

I think it's different. I think African men who grew up in Africa respect black women.

[Jack9949]

I think so too. I mean most black guys from Africa seem pretty nice

[menina]

Yes, they do.

[ct1243]

I am not interested in BLM or supporting BM. If issues doesn’t affect BW than there’s no reason for me to support it. I have no respect to give to BM ; their preferences should be there for them in their injustices and struggles as BM. I have moved on as a BW and putting myself first for what I want. My cape is burned and my focus is BW and their flight , their happiness, and healing moving forward. Thanks again ❤️💋

[Jack9949]

No problem 😊

[ct1243]

Thanks @Jack9949

[hahahmm]

Eh, if a man is a loser then he will get used/abused/humiliated by women of all races. Most guys just don't recognize when they're a loser. Guys who are successful quickly learn to take charge of their lives. Successful men don't need a mommy.

[Anonymous]

I saw a black guy blame Disney and Porn for showcasing white girls and making him think only white girls are attractive. Blaming media for your cheap mentality is not a real man.

[Anonymous]

It’s because black women aren’t submissive and they talk back. And weak men haaate that. 😂

[TayTay21]

Because as much as blacks seem to dislike other races, they dislike each other more. Whites are kind of the same way. The real battles are always within a family.

[Jack9949]

White men are the most carefree dudes I know. We chill af.

[Jersey2]

All good in my white family 😀

[yaboiziek]

I don't think you can even be racist to your own races? like if I said I hated white women and I myself am white, that's not racist that just means I don't prefer white women.

[sheikalana]

What do you mean white women are using and humiliating them? I dated black men and never used or humiliated them.

[Jack9949]

Well you’re one of the few

[sheikalana]

One of the few what?

[Jack9949]

That actually finds them attractive

[sheikalana]

Black men are very attractive and not only a few women share the same opinion.

[Jack9949]

So be it. But I despise men who shame their own women.

[supercutebutt]

@jack9949 You dated a black woman. Did you use her?

[amaguqe]

@jack9949 You need help

[Jack9949]

@supercutebutt I never date ANY woman before. I’ve always been an incel

[Jack9949]

@amaguqe Again. What she just said isn’t true. I’ve always been an incel

[supercutebutt]

@jack9949 Oh ok. I am confusing you with someone else. Maybe you would mellow out if you got sum sniz? Just a thought.

[Jack9949]

@supercutebutt I mean are you proposing anything yourself? 😏

[supercutebutt]

Are you from Michigan?

[Jack9949]

@supercutebutt yes

[supercutebutt]

What city?

[Jack9949]

@supercutebutt Grand Rapids

[supercutebutt]

Sadly, you are too far away. I am in the Detroit area. I have a brother who failed out of Grand Valley, though. But that was a long time ago.

[Jack9949]

@supercutebutt lol no worries I’ll make the trip

[supercutebutt]

Speaking of Grand Rapids, did you ever see that movie called Hardcore?

[Jack9949]

@supercutebutt yes I did

[Jack9949]

@supercutebutt getting back to your idea. What did you have in mind?

[Anonymous]

Thanks for shedding light on this matter and supporting us.

[Jack9949]

Aye np. Were you the same pink anon I was just talking to?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. I like your consistency. :)

[Jack9949]

Honestly I can’t understand BM these days. What did BW ever do to them to deserve the hate they get? And if I’m being honest it isn’t the black women on this site I see talking about race constantly.

[Opinion Owner]

Ikr. Luckily, more and more bw are expanding their options to date non bm.

[Jack9949]

Exactly. But there isn’t a colorist motive behind it

[Browneye57]

Geez you whine a lot. FAIL

[Jack9949]

Maybe in this post I did. But its an injustice

[Browneye57]

The world is FULL of injustices. Deal with your own life, what YOU can control, and live it for YOU.
Ignore all the rest of all that bullshit. You can't change it anyway.
And anyway, racist or not, you'll find these dipshits in all races, genders, and ages.

[Jack9949]

It just annoys me.

[Browneye57]

Gee, when you get to my age, EVERYTHING will annoy you. LOL
You learn to focus on the things you can actually DO something about. And mostly that's nothing. Be a good role-model for your kids. Love your wife. Do good work. Make lots of money. :)

[Jack9949]

Speaking about making lots of money I’m about to start investing. Are you an investor yourself?

[Browneye57]

Just my 401k... it's in a target fund.
I own a home, have since 20. This latest one has more than tripled in value over the past 28 years. I'm looking at full retirement in just a couple of years.
But no, I don't play the stock market.
If you employer has a retirement plan, max that out first.

[Jack9949]

I have a roth IRA currently. But my employer does not offer a 401k

[Unconcernedman]

fuck all racist people