So why are most white men still in relationships with white women? And why are most white men still attracted to them & defending them from criticism?

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I’m just genuinely confused why anybody could be attracted to white women when there are such better options available.

I mean its always been my experience that Asian and latina women are far more caring and supportive people.

All you have to do is look at the divorce rates to understand why they are much better mothers and wives.

But of course white women still love to slut shame them all the time. They envy them for what they lack themselves.

And so I really can’t understand why white guys put up with them.

I just really don’t see the appeal behind women who view themselves as being above other people in terms of value. ESPECIALLY when they have the least of anybody to offer themselves.

I mean the only explanation I can fathom in my mind for why someone would still prefer white women is if they were coming from a place of hate. Because there’s absolutely no logical explanation I can think of as to why someone would still prefer them.

And even though I’m very conservative politically and I voted for Donald Trump it still saddens me to realize just how many white people still are racist these days.

Here we are constantly defending ourselves from valid criticism but we do absolutely nothing to stand up for others.

I just wish I didn’t have to log onto this site all the time and have people tell me that I shouldn’t ever date a black woman or a brown skinned latina.

At the end of the day its only values that matter to me. I don’t see why its harming anybody if my child is mixed race.

If I’ll feel happier with my wife, isn’t that all that matters?

NotARobberYet · Accepted Answer

I don't know either. Maybe it has something to do with the fact that we white men are shamed for liking non-white women, especially when we love Asian girls... White women seem to have a special streak of venom in their hearts against Asian women.

I don't like white women because I associate them with the bad experiences I had when dating white girls and also with woke bullshit since white women are 90% of the SJW fanbase. They drink all the wokie kool aid and end up resenting white men a lot, which is sad.

Maybe some white guys are willing to put up with white women because they wanna fight for the survival of American/Western culture, but I ask them... Is the Western culture really worth being fight for?

Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

Just on a fundamental stats wise level it makes perfect sense. You do know other races are minority's to the race dominant in there country's. Therefore if your country is mostly white people with black people been a minority obvious white men and white women are mostly gonna be together because quite simply there is more of them. if you went to a country were black people were the majority then it would be a lot of black guys and black women together.

And this without even going into the topic of all the ways your views are just weird and wrong. Which i spared for just simple it wouldn't work mathematically anyway so shrugs.

FocusOfSuspicion · Accepted Answer

So I am a more traditional woman, a constitutionalist, don’t believe in divorce, do believe in the existence of gender roles even if they are not always possible to live up to in the modern world, etc, etc… and I’m white. My race never factored in. I didn’t learn these views from my parents or my religion or my friends. I developed my values on my own. I don’t have many behind me where those beliefs are concerned regardless of race. It is what it is. I would honestly not write off the whole white race, I would go farther and write off the entire culture we live in.

Sweetener_ · Accepted Answer

Sorry but I don't agree with you on this, it seems like you hate white men being in a relationship with girls of their own race. It's just a preference. It's okay If you like black girls/ Latinas etc but it's not ok to shame people who don't, white girls are just as beautiful and worthy like any other girl of any race ❤

Anonymous · Answer

Not all white women are bad. There are some good ones who are traditional and not liberal ass-wipes. I agree that many of the younger white women are brainwashed feminist bitches and I would rather they get sent over to ISIL than stay in this country but we have to consider them individually and determine a person's worth based on their actions and words... Then we can reject them when they turn out to be man bashing liberal scum

thathonestman · Answer

Good lord this take is extra strength stupid. You have a lot to learn about a lot of things.

People's preferences are none of your business nor your concern (unless it's children). People's ethnic preferences are nobody's business and nobody should ever be shamed or criticized for that.

Do you know why people typically gravitate towards their own race? Because cultural differences make it easier. Marriage, family, customs and culture become very difficult when you are constantly butting heads because you come from very different walks of life. People severely underestimate how relationships work long term, 5-10-15 years from now. Being on the same page matters.

If you are happy with your wife and your life is stable with her? Are you on the same page? Yes that is all that matters. Your preferences are your own and nobody should be criticizing you for that. And vice versa.

GetJinxed · Answer

Wow this post is racist. White women are just as deserving of love and respect as any other race. Why do you care so much about what white men prefer? It is not uncommon for people to prefer to date within their own race. This is true across the board. Why should white men be any different? You had a few bad experiences and you think those handful of bad ones justify you passing judgement on an entire race of people? Do you realize how small an amount of people you encountered is compared to the population of the world? Do you not realize white people in different areas have different cultures that play a part in behavior and belief systems? Do you think all white people think the same? Shame on you. Seriously.

Exterminatore · Answer

I’m married to a who’re woman. We have a good relationship. No reason to change it. She’s not attracted to other races FYI. I think you’re getting stuck on a small minority of women who are ultra liberal and are selfish and grandiose. Not all white women are like that. I think the small percentage who are have you so stunned you don’t know what to think.

OliviaOfTheScots · Answer

You're 19 and yet to experience the world and everyone has their tastes but no one likes people who develop a superiority complex because of it.

You like who you like and you let people like who they like, no need to be a knob

BeMuse · Answer

What's wrong dog, did you spend 6 years of your life trying to dilute the White gene pool and realize you had absolutely no effect with your racist shilling? 6 years down the drain... You'll never get that back.

Uannoyme · Answer

If you don't like white women, don't date white women. Leave others to decide for themselves. Not your concern.

Slartybartfast · Answer

I was one of the only white guys in my highschool. There were no white women and if I tried to date a black girl they would have found my body in five different trash cans.

FakeName123 · Answer

People prefer to date among their kinship. All statistics prove that.

Gray-Wisp · Answer

Legitimate question. Have you ever looked up statistics related to genetics, IQ, and crime?

Whtevernever · Answer

I can't tell if this is more racist or sexist but it is definitely garbage.

Twalli · Answer

Just because you had shit luck with white women doesn't mean they're all like that.

Anonymous · Answer

Asked why white men still date white women.  Proceeeds to complain about racism.

Anonymous · Answer

Because not everyone is a xenophilliac. Nothing wrong with wanting to be with your own people.

Goddess_Lexii · Answer

There are good and bad people of all colors.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Sounds like a stupid question to me!

007kingifrit · Answer

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