Why can't you uplift a race without bringing down your own? I don't see white men shaming white women I don't see Asian men shaming Asian women I don't see none of them shaming their women in their music But with BLACK MEN it's a different issue.
We are either "too dark" "too aggressive" "put too much make up" "sluts or hoes" for you all.
Why can't you have an opinion withouth bringing us down.
I've seen several videos of black men acting stupidly with black women. But seeing that video of that black girl thrown in a dumpster by dusty black men, was the last straw for me. You know what's even worst? The fact that they posted it on social media and were mocking her as if what they did wasn't enough.
Then y'all wonder why we're aggressive? Look at the way YOU guys are treating our women, nowadays black men do not have the B**** to stand up for BLACK WOMEN. SO WE HAVE TO DO IT. See, BLACK WOMEN are DOING the JOBS YOU GUYS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE DOING. YOU GUYS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE OUR PROTECTORS but instead YOU GUYS BECAME OUR OPPRESSORS! You can't even protect your own. Shame on you.
I know not all black men are like these, but why is it that the majority are? Why is it that they get away with committing crimes against black women? Or is it because black women don't have privileges like white women so you think you can suddenly play with them like some rag dolls? What's wrong with y'all and who raised y'all?
I'm honestly really disgusted and dissapointed in some things I've been seeing and hearing, and hearing some teenage black guys mock black girls leaves me disappointed like this is really where we've reached... And because of this I'm not attracted to black guys anymore. I mean if it's God's will for me to be with one then that's cool, but I personally don't like them anymore because they really dissapoint me...
So please, black men & Fathers please start teaching your kids how to respect BLACK WOMEN and not only women of other races. Thank you.
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These are several videos I watched, and I posted these screenshots for a reminder. For those who haven't watched it you can dm me for the link.
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And please do not be deceived by her smile, she was smiling because she was on the brink of tears.
Black men, why do you shame women of your own race?
For me, this is a cultural issue that we are going to have to face as a whole. Seeing as how from jump, since slavery and all that shh, the white woman would take interest in a black man and the black woman would take interest in a white man. Today, these have formed their own paths as other race women take interest into black men, and black women will also take interest into other race men. The separation has been caused from the start point and will have to end with some common ground. The aspect itself is pretty deep. Modernly, the black woman has had to become stronger on her own, as the black man has maintained absence, meaning that now, the strength acquired by the black woman has become to strong for the men to handle in some areas, making it a threat for them. Seeing as how other race women don't really have a reason to put up a fight, they would be easier to attach to (not saying that they are easy, loose, or just plain, just that they are the "easier" option for the men) , whereas we are left to find balance elsewhere. But, do not get me wrong, there are still black men out there who respect and love black women and plenty of other race men who admire us. This wedge between us though, has cut very deep and we have to find the pieces in which they fell apart to reconstruct ourselves. But, it will be up to the black men to initiate that start, until then, I don't think that the issue will suffice. Until they can get their s*** together, I think it's fair for black women to date or marry whomever they want in the meantime. Chao
I seen the one of the girl being thrown in the trash and seeing her cry hurt my soul. She looked so defeated she didn't even try and get out it was horrible
Not sure who you've met, but I'm part black and I have yet to meet someone who fills the bill.
Second of all, the fact that you mentioned a group of black men throwing a woman into a dumpster implies that they're not exactly the best band of people to hang out with...
Anyway, it's not just black men that do this. There have been white, Asians and more that have done this. With over 7 billion people on the planet, it is statistically probable with some of the supposedly more conservative countries such as the Japanese, even if you may not associate them with the thought
Well at least you better be strong since among the black men and boys, there those who still love and value black ladies like there Queens. So it depends on whom you are to meet with, bt not all people are the same.
I know not all are like that... But it's really hard to think straight when even guys my age are shaming girls of their own race. It's like monkey see monkey do. But at the end of the day I really don't think that much about it, because there are men out of the black race who appreciate black women more than black men themselves. And for the black men who still love and treat black women like queens I pray they don't lose hope on finding the right one. Because by the way most black men are acting and black women response to it can cause a black man to lose hope on getting a black woman.
Hmm I do get what you mean @Sweetener_ , so to the men and boys who harass blac women. They just seem to be harassed by the way how black women pursue and portray themselves. So they ain't used to the strong mind and actions of black women. It makes them feel weak and useless.
This is not a black men versus black women issue. This can be a family issue, a self issue and a acquired behavior issue, taught division from even the slavery days. It's a ugly human trait that even the lesser species, we think of as inferior to humans don't have. Meaning dogs and cats.
I've never shamed any black woman, let alone any other woman period. Regardless of her deeds or misguided beliefs. Until one walks in another's shoes, what gives them the right to shame anyone?
I'm a black man, but I'm also a Christian. Christian men are taught to treat "older women like mothers and younger women like sisters, totally chaste". And Christian women are taught to be modest and respectful. So, shaming a black woman because she's black is not Christian. It is also not something any decent black man would do. If anything, the only people who deserve shaming are those who act shamefully, such as mothers who smoke or curse in front of their kids, or pregnant girls who would murder their unborn babies by abortion.
Wow that’s awful. Is this why some black women take interest in white dudes all of a sudden? Also I think a majority of the issue is just cultural. When you have such a high number of Black men being raised by single moms its going to create issues. Also I can’t think of any good reason why they wouldn’t defend their own kind.
Oh wait... according to this chic’s profile she is from Italy not the USA... does that change anything? Cuz from my experience here in America a majority of people date their own race.
Yeah... Italy must be really different from America then... also are most black women similar to you in Italy? In terms of appearance and personality? I noticed your social values as well.
White men shame white women all the time. They are always complaining about them... I've never shamed a black women but I've been shamed by them many times because im not black enough for them. Race is a false idea that was created in the 15th or 16 century and used to enslave black people. Why? because it is a lot easier to get a lot of slaves if they dont have to be war criminals etc. All we need to make someone our slave is to recognize them as a Negro. Stop playing this 600 year old game. We will never win. Start promoting one race human race instead of this. If you do that then if won't matter if a few bad apples that are dark skinned are shaming dark skinned women. In fact maybe everyone will look out for one another and people won't be so bad. by the way have you once looked for good stories of black couples? Because if all your seeing and looking for is bad then your judgement is worthless in regards to the matter.
Well I’ll happily slut shame a white woman as a white man any day, sluts r bad for society they produce children from broken families who go on to make the world a worse place
I do agree tho that black men are really disrespectful to black women in particular. They have completely abandoned them
It's a cultural rott I think black people need to build a healthy culture which promotes monogamy and love for their own people. Right now throughout the African world there is a very toxic culture in regards to women.
I don't think many black women want black men, I believe they prefer white guys , but maybe I am wrong. Asian women want white guys. White guys want Asian and Hispanic women. Hispanic women want Hispanic men and Hispanic men want Hispanic women.
I disagree. I've never known one black girl that wants a white guy. They are usually the ones they want the least. They call they nerdy and pale. Asian women however love white men that is fact.
The black community has been polled at like 98% Christianity. And deeply rooted in their families. Having read the Bible, the themes of women being subservient is there.
yeah.. its usually Asian women shaming Asian men, not all quite a few self hating ones.
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I avoid all black women. So you don't have to worry about me throwing you in a dumpster. I dont even wanna be around you. I use the 6 feet rule before Covid.
Find a white guy and make se light skin baby's and live through your kids
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I'm not black and I'm not even American but seeing some of the stuff black women do, I'm not surprised if they don't get treated with respect. How can people respect them when they don't respect themselves? Anyway I've heard that black women in America are the most privileged group.
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I saw the dumpster video and I get what you're saying but it was funny
In every race there's always someone who doesn't respect themselves. And if that's the case, let me take the white race as an example.
Lots of white women work for porn hub... You automatically know that someone who does that doesn't have respect for themselves. Now does that give white men the audacity to shame ALL white women, WOMEN OF THEIR OWN RACE? NO! There are women who don't respect themselves in all races but black men SHAME THEIR OWN RACE TO UPLIFT ANOTHER! So this is not only about "self respect" it's also about common sense and education.
@Iron_Man Why tho? Is their own kind not good enough? I believe God created every race beautiful in his image so its important enough people see the importance in its preservation.
@Jack9949 Bro you do realize humans all come from Africa. Race doesn't exist it was made up in the 15th or 16th century (1500s) to enslave people more easily. Instead of a war criminal being a slave you could just slave people for being dark skinned. It's no coincidence that America was being around such time. But the only reason people dont look African anymore is because Africans ventured out and their bodies adapted to the new locations. But if a whole bunch of white people went to africa and only mated with white people there they would still eventually start to look like black people. We gotta stop believing in a 600 year old lie. Race doesn't exist. I mean if you wanna be super specific u could say blonde are a different race than white people with brown hair.
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