Why is a white woman shamed more for being with a black man than vice-versa?

[Anonymous]

If a white woman dates or marries a black man she gets shamed more than if a white man gets does the same with a black woman.

Why is the white woman shamed for that but NOT the white man?

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There is even a derrogative name for her but not for a white man with a black wife.

[inhua]

all relationships that don't fall within a "societal norm" get shamed.

gay relationships get shamed. age gap relationships get shamed. people not in relationships get shamed. the list goes on.

[RolandCuthbert]

The thing that is crazy is that there are far more "White" dudes dating Asian women, than there are "White" women dating "Black" men.

In fact, "Black" men are not even "White" women's first choice when it comes to dating "interracially".

Hispanic men are.

[Vesuvius87]

Latina woman here and even I was disappointed when posting and getting hit on by mainly black men from Nigeria and other countries. Yes they find me attractive and cute but I don't find them attractive at all. Black men aren't my first option at all, not even 3rd option. It's really white men as 1st option and then latino men that aren't too dark nor have indigenous features. I believe black men aren't most latina women's first option either.

[RolandCuthbert]

@Vesuvius87 You need to reassure the incels here that "Black" men are not your tastes at all.

They keep blaming us for their inability to get a date. I am sure anyone of them will take you up on your offer.

Ultimate insanity. Now "Black" males have superior genes to "Whites" making them more masculine? Who is being irrational here? ↗

Does the 80/20 rule actually exist? ↗

Why don't more men learn how to flirt? ↗

[Anemone978]

Nobody gets shamed except for on the internet... which isn't real life... ignore the cowards... and enjoy life...

[Breanna_nonbinary]

How do you know white guys aren’t shamed for the same sort of thing?

[Asker]

It's just my observation. I've heard more white women get shamed for dating or marrying a black men meanwhile people seem more lenient when a white man has a black wife.

[Avicenna]

No one gets more shamed fir interracial relationships than black WOMEN.

[Anonymous]

Cuz white guys think she's doing it only for the dick. From an economic standpoint, black guys will earn less. From a family standpoint, the reputation to be responsible is not very good. Never mind that white guys can be just as irresponsible, but they will quickly shame the white woman.

[FilmGuy93]

It's the idea of race politics and the fact that white skin is seen as a sort of status symbol

[Asker]

Yes but then the white man would be equally shamed or given a bad name but he isn't. There isn't a specific derrogative name for a white man dating or marrying a black woman.

[FilmGuy93]

There are... I've heard of those guys being called "race traitors" "colonizers" and other names along those lines.

[Asker]

I found the word. Meanwhile the white women that are into black men are called mud sharks, the white men into black women are called oil drillers.
www.urbandictionary.com/define.php

[FilmGuy93]

You gotta hand it to bigots; they really come up with some creative slurs

[Berethor]

Black gal on white guy drama trope, women are shamed more for being disloyal in general.

[Anonymous]

Who cares! They're not in the relationship with you two. And if you care what other people think of your relationship it's clearly not a very strong relationship.

[Asker]

I'm single. This was just a general question base on my observation and what I've heard. It seems there are more bad names for the white woman than the white man.

[Anonymous]

Because it's rare to see a relationship like that.

White men are usually shamed for choosing Asian girls over white girls.

[Asker]

yeah they aren't shamed too much for being with a black woman, not as much as white women being with black men.

[Opinion Owner]

White men are much more shamed for choosing Asian women than white women for being with black men.

[TheFlak38]

Unfortunately these race mixing mud sharks don't get shamed enough.

[Asker]

This is exactly the discriminatory shaming I'm talking about. A name has already been given to white women with black men but people are more tolerant and lenient towards white men with black women. You proved it yourself with your comment.

[TheFlak38]

I didn't prove anything you stupid race mixing bitch. Im just as critical to men who do it and to black women. Cry a river you race mixing slut.

[Anonymous]

It’s honestly better these two groups mix up because black people are super ethnocentric and white people are racist as hell! You guys both need your identities to be replaced

[Asker]

I find it cool when these two groups mix and create mixed babies.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I agree. The kids are better off. They won’t be as racist being mixed race lol

[CALIGVLA]

We white men are mixing with Asian girls a lot (1 in 2 Asian women are in a relationship with a white man according to stats).

And there isn't a damn thing you can do about it, blue anon. Asians will rule over you guys.

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t have a problem with white people. I’d just rather have a kid be born as less black rather than fully black

[Opinion Owner]

Willing to give up white people to do that

[CALIGVLA]

Take the L, loser.

[Cheerfull009]

There is no reason for shame in interrace marriages. I have seen many white girls married to Pakistani boys and Pakistani girls married to American, British, French and Germans

[OddBeMe]

Because um…what’s that thing no one think exists…. racism.

[ThomasDavid1989]

Racists will shame anything they can blame on race

[LimitedBenefits101]

Same reason we get shamed for prefer Asian women over white women.

[Anonymous]

What's the derogatory name?

[Asker]

It's a mud shark
www.urbandictionary.com/define.php
That's what they call it when a white woman dates or marries a black man.

[Asker]

They actually have one for a white man dating or marrying a black woman.
www.urbandictionary.com/define.php
He's called an oil driller

[Opinion Owner]

Oh yeah... I was thinking "Skank".