White men have no problem self promoting themselves as the perfect man in films or sampling women from other races before they eventually settle down with a WHITE WOMAN. They also have no problem with putting up an appearance of being friendly and open with other races. However, they do have a problem with interracial dating and tend to HEAVILY SHAME white women, especially attractive ones for dating men who are not white. ESPECIALLY BLACK. Hell, plenty of white males I've known throughout my life have made a point of not wanting to date a girl who has been with a black guy in the past and many will not take a white girl seriously if they found out she had a black lover. [White men heavily emasculate men from other races but when it come to white and black paring really hate black-white couples]
A good example of this is Rich Piana. The dude makes himself out to be very friendly towards black people but then went off on his ex-wife for going out on a date with a black man, referring to blacks as niggers several time on the phone.
Why is it WHITE MEN tend to have a problem with WHITE women dating outside their race?
While I'm sure there are men who are that way, it's truly mostly BS! You're stereotyping based on your own opinions and how YOU see things.. .. As for your example, simply as I see it is a man hurt probably because he still wants his ex and is very defensive toward the guy who now has her... it could have been anybody else, any race even white and if he is THAT badly hurt/annoyed etc etc.. he surly would have said the words or first negative comments about the person he considers a threat or better than him cause he took the girl he wanted so he is bound to make him feel as inferior as he possibly can with the rudest comments ever..
Just like any scorned woman would talk shit about the girl that is now with the guy she wanted.. she will try to put herself above her by degrading the other with the most awful things she could possibly say and bring out... racist comments included even if they are not racist, it's common sense, being upset and jealousy will always make a person say negative things about another...
Perhaps you seeing all white men the way you say they are in your descriptions above make you feel superior? ... that's how I see it, or at least how you come off to me from what you wrote.
I think some men (and women) of all races do that, it has something to do with the idea of taking away from "their" pool of potential mates. As for white men having a problem with white women dating black men specifically, I really think it has something to do with insecurity about penis size and overall masculinity. While there might be some truth to the stereotypes about race and penis size, it's ridiculous to react that way since nothing makes you less attractive to women than insecurity.
I think there's people like this of every race, black or white. I've dated white guys and my sister is married to a white guy and all of us get crap for it from members of our races, male or female, black or white.
So do other races. You must have never been in Asia with an Asian girl. There are some alarming deathstares :D Maybe not so much in a non-asian country where the Asians are the foreigners, but in an Asian country, it does happen. And there are many videos from vloggers in Japan / Korea / China to prove it. Just search YouTube. It's similar for black people, though my experience in this case is very limited, so I can't comment on how bad exactly it is. What I can comment on, is how white men think of it - I don't personally know any who would have a problem with it.
Bottom line is, this isn't race specific. There are racists everywhere. Some are assholes, some just have an inferiority complex, some are insecure and some are just somehow protective in a twisted way, thinking they own the women or something. Whatever the reason, this has nothing to do with race.. It's a lot like some people believing only whites can be racist. No, other races also do a lot of the things attributed only to white people. It's just that nobody cares.
People react violently when their SO moves on. They reach for anything about the new person to get mad about. Skin is the first thing we see, so its easy.
I don't think this is specific to white men. I think this is universal. Its not pretty, but jealousy isn't pretty.
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the highest prevalence of bashing when it comes to interracial relationship are black men-white women coupling.
Yeah I have never seen this ever. I'm sure some are that way but not most. In fact I see far more blacks being pissed off at white men and black women couples then anything else. the only time you see a white guy get upset usually is when its a thuggish black guy and in that case its not because they are black its because they are a thug. As for your one example your basing all white people on, I don't know the context of that but I would assume that its probably more about who he thinks the guy is or due to him being angry and thus prone to inappropriate out bursts (kind of like how you just stereotyped all white men despite the fact that if I where to stereotype all black men you would lose your shit.) In fact I will say the only reasons why I would be against some one elses relationship based upon race was if the woman was fetishizing the man, the man the woman or if it was some sad attempt to try to emasculate the men of the other race i. e. like some black men try to date white women to try and emasculate white men, convincing themselves that they are some how better or more desirable. But then the reason why I am against that is because thats not a healthy relationship (I mean do what ever you want I just don't think people should use others to stroke their egos). Beyond that I do not care (I have known black men who have dated white men and again, couldn't care less because they dated them becaues they where attracted to them and vice versa. My friend is dating a black woman and again, no one cares (except her parents it would seem and her brother (though he has other issues so it could be due to those). But in general only insecure people give a damn one way or the other if its a regular relationship. Its when its not that people usually start having issues.
Real talk. This is every racial group. Every. Single. Racial. Group.
My white father got it from black dudes, when he was first dating my black mom. I got it from white guys, when dating "their" women. I've gotten it from mexican dudes, when dating latinas. I even hear Asian guys complaining about Asian girls dating outside their ethnicity. Black girls complain about black guys dating white women. You'll literally hear it from every side.
Bitches are gonna be bitches. And you can't control how bitches bitch. So it's best to just let it go, because it really doesn't matter. That aside that Rich Piana audio was hilarious to me hahahaa
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Most of the White men who bitch and complain about White women interracially dating while ironically they (White men) get happy and shut the fuck up about interracial dating when they're in a relationship with an attractive Non-White Women, are just insecure, limp-dick neckbeards who often hide behind a computer screen (most likely on reddit, forming up their circlejerks or some alt-right leaning site or White Supremacist website) while they're too cowardly to come and actually confront White Women-Non White Men interracial couples to their faces.
The rest of the White men or your average white guy doesn't give a shit about interracial relationships.
Beacose races are different for a reason ! ( Nature NEVER does something without a scope). Every race has its own biological safety mechanism ( they are more happy between people like their own and hate it when someone is betraying the "family" Racism is Biological in all races for humans and animals ( try bringing an ape from group 1 into group 2 and see what happens. "he will get killed") For people willing to ditch the "political correctness" crap and see that the nature is BRUTAL and has no compassion for these things. Today's trend is to say that only White people are racists but of course it is not only wrong but stupid and heinous also. Dont trust me? Look at the white people machete butchering in south africa (Of course you will never hear about this in the news).
It usually just comes down to racism or plain old insecurity. I don't care who a woman dates. It's not up to me to decide for her plus I don't own a woman just because she has a similar skin tone.
I think it comes down to primal territorial bullshit too. The hypocritical thing is I bet loads of those dudes have been attracted to women outside their race.
Ego its not just white men who are like this, but black men also get mad when they see a black chick with a white man. Others races and even nationalities have this problem as well. Asian men don't like seeing Asian women date outside their race, Hispanics, etc.
Are you telling me that BLACK men don't have a problem with their daughters dating WHITE men?
Are you telling me that HISPANIC men don't have a problem with their daughters dating Asian men?
Are you telling me that Asian men don't have a problem with their daughters dating HISPANIC men?
Are you telling me that SIKH men don't have a problem with their daughters dating ARAB men?
Are you telling me that ARAB men don't have a problem with their daughters dating JEWISH men?
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Anonymous
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Men of all races are like that. Imagine to outrage if Beyonce or Obama's daughters dated white guys. But nothing compares to black women when good black men date white women. Remember when cherl cole beat up a black washroom attendant upset cause she was dating a black soccer player.
If they do it's because they're racist and that's it. There's no other truthful reasoning
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Anonymous
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Maybe they are mad if you take the good looking ones it will be less for them 😊 But that's ok because I was married to a pretty black woman and got jealous looks from black guys. I also wouldn't care if she was with a black guy before, maybe the ones that do will be afraid they can't measure up
Why would white men NOT have a problem with white women who have dated other races? Seriously? And agreed. I don't date women who have slept with black men.
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Anonymous
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Black men also have a problem with black women dating white men. This phenomenon is not unique to white men. I wish people would just let other people do what they want to do.
every bodies like that tho. black guy black women. look at them Asian countries and there honour killing the stuff. people are greedy lol
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Anonymous
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No one wants to get with someone easily brainwashed and they should have pride in their race, their country and should want children that look like them, not nothing like them. People that race mix got indoctrinated at school and didn't learn about life.
Bro white men, white women, black men, black women, Asian men, Asian women, arab men, arab women. People from both genders of all cultures and races have problems like that.
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Anonymous
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It hurt their ego that their women find another men (from other race) better than them. They're vexed.
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