Why can't men online find love with women in the real world?

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Just curious not being rude at all. But why can't you? It's not for all the men but some of you

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I did, but that was 15 years ago. We’re still together. But today, w a lot of girls of this generation some men feel it’s not worth it. As a man after all these years women telling us they don’t need us, we can do better w out men, men ain’t shit, etc, etc. Also men are concerned about being accused of something. You can’t tell a girl she looks pretty these days w out having to wonder is she going to say thank you. Call you a pig. Report you for sexual harassment or what. I get it not all women do that. But which ones don’t. Can’t tell. That’s like a bowl of skittles, one is laced w poison. Do you take one, take a chance or just say no id rather be safe than sorry. You read stories of women accusing men of rape when she willingly slept w the dude. One case where this girl got w two dudes, then later reported them for rape all because she didn’t want the dude she replay liked to look at her as a slut. Another girl took a man to court saying he fondled her while unconscious when he was doing CPR on her after she nearly drowned at a pool party. The list goes on. Why would men want to risk their freedom? I’ve read many post on here about girls staking a man they like, can’t get over a crush even if he was never hers to begin w. Now she’s like how can I get back at him for picking another girl. He was never interested in her to begin w. A lot of men don’t want to deal w that. There’s. A lot more reasons besides what I’ve stated.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Wait wait a minute don't delete your question if a guy cannot handle your question that's his problem not yours..

If he's not happy and he has to look for an argument that should tell you something or maybe why they're dating online and not in person..

. I really don't see what an argument would be about it's just a question and it's a pretty good question

For me I believe in the real world would be my best way to go because I like looking into the eyes of somebody that I'm communicating with that I like that I love that I want to touch and hold..

I'm single at the moment and the last past 2 years I had to stop my world and take care of somebody that had dementia.

And it literally could have just driven me crazy.

. But at the same time I have talked to you girls online and I have fell in love.

. In falling in love with somebody online is a pretty powerful thing especially if you can feel that person's energy from how many miles away you are that creates a very very special bond becoming one with somebody and feeling them as if they were right next to you to me that's a very special thing and if you can find that online you have to meet that person or at least I would because I would want to feel it in real life too.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Guys have a massive "fantasy land" that is fed by a ton of things to which they're exposed every single day. Depending on the guy, all this input from online and the real world combine in their minds to make approaching an actual woman either easy, or a little challenging, or completely impossible.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Seems like it not so much people being bullies as that they are asking why you have two accounts, one blue and one pink. It's a valid question. Can you answer?

Lynx122 · Answer

We do :) But for me personally it's harder for me to communicate face to face. When you're texting it's a lot simpler you write what you mean and that's it. But irl there's like 10 different layers of communication going on at the same time and it's difficult for me to focus. There's actually a woman I want to ask out right now. Today I went shopping for groceries and I was on my way home. I wasn't feeling well and I was just focused on getting home. Then I saw her she was looking pretty in a pink dress and I talked to her a bit but I'm not good at all with spontaneous social interaction I need to be prepared XD. All I was thinking about was going home and then suddenly I had to think about a million different things. I feel like she is actually interested in me but I didn't take advantage of the opportunity. My communication is very direct and one dimensional so I feel like women often read into my lack of expressiveness in other areas as lack of interest or so. I still want to get to know her though and I will ask her next time.

I can only talk about my own difficulties though I don't know about other people.

Lionman95 · Answer

I would say because getting to know a person online is harder as many people aren't actually interested in getting to know people they just want the validation that come with the number of likes.
Guys and women alike use dating apps like window shoppers. If one goes on a date they go there with the intention to get to know the other person. That's not the same with dating apps.
Besides many dating apps are business oriented so they are packed with guys while having a small pool of women.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

It's possible but social media actually have a much bigger pool on different types of people, for some the area they live in might have a lot of similarities besides if some have a thing for women from different cultures, it's easier to find them on the internet than to find them locally

noohair · Answer

That is a good question. They think that the women would be different far away, and that is a fantasy.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I found Miss Helen online - zoosk. com - in December 2020 and we were married on April 27 this year. I don't know why it is so difficult for other guys except that it seems that some of them just don't want to make any effort.

Anonymous · Answer

Because women in my state are assholes and jerks and not approachable or easy to talk to. They either have a boyfriend or act like a jerk

RavVid · Answer

I think it has to be a real world thing. Have found two women of interest this last 3 months but the things that were interesting would not come through in online dating.

Finchie40 · Answer

Because most men and women are shy or have low self esteem about themselves , it’s easier for them to socialize online then in public.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Many times the kind of guys who end up constantly online aren't socially adjusted very well.  So there's a little bit of anti-social personality tendencies going on there.

Anonymous · Answer

The men who are annoying aren’t finding women because of how they are. Other times options are limited. Especially in a area where every woman is your cousin

Berethor · Answer

Start talking to a woman in real life is harder than to do it online.

RingOfFire · Answer

I suppose the same could be asked of women. There are plenty of them looking for love online too.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Been in love 3 times myself. Did you wanna know about other guys tho?

OddBeMe · Answer

They don’t try. They’re too afraid and thus get angry. Birth of inceldom.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably for the same women online can only seem to find guys that just want to sleep with them.😜 not to be rude either. But why can't you? It's not all the women but some of you.

OhLongJohnsoning · Answer

Cause women, suck, balls. Period

Pterodon · Answer

I did

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