Why is easy for some women to find men to get into a relationship all the time and other women not a single man is interested or reciprocates feeling?

[Anpernam]

[SteveSmith1985]

I know it seems that way. I know you've watched it BE that way. But it's really not. I had a good friend a few years ago, who was amazing. She was a catch. Objectively. By anyone's standards.

We were close for about 3 years. She was looking for a guy to be her future husband very actively. I was there for the ups and downs. The whole time I was getting frustrated too.

I am a guy. I can tell you... she was a catch for any guy. I could not understand why she was having any trouble, let alone years of dashed hopes and feeling unwanted. Then one day, she did find the right guy. "Click"... It just fit. She's married with a kid now, but It did take a long time to find him. I can assure you that if this girl had trouble... any girl can have trouble.

I don't know what exactly your experience has been. Hang in there though... you don't need "guys"... to be interested. You just need to find that one right guy who is right for you.

There can be many reasons you're not getting attention from guys. I can't comment on any of that, I have no idea what your situation or history is. But... hang in there, sometimes it takes a while to find someone.

🙂

[OneViewpoint]

Let me rephrase the question...

Why are some women fit, attractive, and fun to be around and other women fat, ugly, bitter, and nasty?

[itsannalee]

Because people are different, some women are pretty friendly, easy going and more attractive. Just same like fruits and vegetables in the market, the better the appearance and benefits of the fruits, people will buy them.


But don’t some people also prefer discounts over to quality.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Conventional attraction. Cishet men are shallow as hell

[CrisboOx]

I suppose you're one of the latter then?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Who tf even are you?

[CrisboOx]

Just a random guy trying to enjoy a splendid evening.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I hope you continue to do so without me ✌️

[oldpigg]

Because they are ugly or they are promiscuous.

[BarryLiverstone]

Some look better than others and guys find them attractive

[Anonymous]

It's not easy for anyone. But those women that it appears easy it's because they are taking an active role in attracting men.

[PaleDale]

Depends on how serious the relationship is, I think it's more rare to find something serious

[MasterKS]

Attraction and personality values.