How come some men can attract women very easily but other men can't even get one date?

[Anonymous]

[Zack-Bann]

It’s called natural selection


Better known as survival of the fittest


The solution is easy


Become one if the fittest


And by that I mean a full package not just a knucklehead that only lifts weights

[BonzoInBitburg]

If you can talk to any woman without being creepy, you're halfway there and dating will start getting really easy.

[Asker]

Some men get called creepy for just approaching

[BonzoInBitburg]

Because they are. It's not hard to talk to women without being creepy but most guys are creepy because they have no clue

[Asker]

Not all the time. Some men including myself have been called creepy just for approaching & trying to start conversation. Don't gaslight me on this

[BonzoInBitburg]

If a woman thinks you're creepy when you approach then you need to change your approach. It's a skill you can learn. It's not them, it's you. If you don't think you need to change you'll keep getting the same results.

[Asker]

I don't do anything other than just approach. Why di you believe in the just world fallacy?

[BonzoInBitburg]

If I can approach any woman and not be creepy then anyone can do it.

[Asker]

And use the anecdotdal fallacy

[BonzoInBitburg]

Honestly, I really don't care that women find you creepy because it makes it easier for everyone else. So keep doing what you're doing because clearly you have no interest in changing

[Asker]

Creepy is subjective

[PeachyPie93]

I think a lot of it can be creepy behaviour lol
Last year I had a cute guy follow me and my sister who were walking for exercise from this abandoned hospital a good like 5 blocks up on the opposite side of the street. Then he was siting at the bus stop on the other side of the road and watching us then we decided to walk further up my sister didn't notice him but I defo did and I was looking at him. Then we stopped at the next bus stop and he crossed the road and kept walking by us and I was looking at him then I told my sister he is being weird so she said hi to him and he started talking then he asked for my number and I said I don't have one lol If you didn't have the guts to chat them up right away, never follow people that's creepy asf! lol He wasn't bad looking but his behaviour creeped me out lol

If the guy isn't creepy then he is probably ugly and/or not confident and charming.

[Asker]

An ugly guy trying be confident & charming is as useful as lighter fluid underwater

[PeachyPie93]

Not always true.. an ugly guy on first look can become hot if he has a great sense of humour, a nice smile and confidence.

[Asker]

This is just anecdotdal but when i along with some other guys have approached women we immediately get rejected before even getting the chance to show our character

[PeachyPie93]

That could come down to many factors, the woman you are approaching, how you dress, how you speak, it all depends.. also some people aren't looking to date.

[Asker]

True it could be many factors and lack of physical attraction is no exception

[Anonymous]

To quote the band Soul asylum, "Nothing attracts a crowd like a crowd".

Those guys are 100% offense. If they're not crushing puss they're lining it up. And it really only comes down to few basics. But 50% of it comes down to the lemming-esque nature of women. Women don't want a guy till other women want him. And the worst ones openly poach guys who are already taken. So just KNOW that just because a guy gets a lot of woman doesn't mean even half of them are quality women.

[Abbycado]

They spend too much time whining about it on the internet.

[Asker]

Hey they're expressing themselves 🙃

[Abbycado]

Go ahead and keep up with that strategy XD

I don’t want a whiny internet troll.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Some guys are better looking than others guys or their personality is more engaging so they get more opportunities to date more women.

The key isn't about dating a lot of women but finding just the right one for you.

[BarryLiverstone]

Getting a date isn’t the hard part. If you talk to girls irl and get to know them, then you can plan dates. I think lots of guys don’t even try.

[Asker]

I agree that some men don't try at all while other men do try and still have a hard time

[BarryLiverstone]

Why do they have a hard time?

[Asker]

I really don't know. Could be anything

[BarryLiverstone]

You didn’t have to be anon to ask this

[Asker]

What a difference does it make - The smiths

[BarryLiverstone]

Some people have to be anon. But here you didn’t need to

[Asker]

Why do some people have to?

[BarryLiverstone]

If it’s a question that could get them doxed

[jahaims]

Do you not understand there are varying degrees of attraction?

[Anonymous]

Some men are handsome and/or rich, while others are not.