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I am feeling really iffy about him at this point.

We’ve only known each other for 1.5 months and on the 3rd date, he decided to make things official. It was way to fast but he asked me to be his girlfriend and official. Right off the batch, he wasn’t sure about the relationship because he doesn’t know me well enough. But then why he wanted to make it exclusive? And he asked me to his girlfriend. We talked it out, i asked to back out and just keep hanging out... he basically disagree wants to keep this as girlfriend boyfriend. So here we are... I feel like he threw me into being his girlfriend and then now, he’s the one unsure and acting weird.

He is not really treating this like a committed relationship. I feel more like we’re just dating and seeing each other once a week. Our communication is 99.9% through text. At this point, he only told a few friends he has a girlfriend. I have not met any of his friends. He don’t want me to meet them yet.

Since last-night 12:30am he has not been on whatsapp at all. He has not touch his phone since? We are meeting up tonight though. I have no clue what he’s doing and at this point, no trust is gain. He most of the time would send me a goodnight message but recently, when he’s out with his friends... he sometimes doesn’t and disappear until the next day. Last Sunday, we didn’t talk at all. He just went MIA until Monday.

Should I just dump him and find someone else? Is this shady? I am so confused!

Last night, I broke up with my boyfriend last night
I told him I still have trust issues and so I keep thinking he's cheating/talking to other girls
So I felt like there's no point in being in a relationship with someone I don't trust
I said to him: "I love you but I don't trust you, so I have to let you go"
I cried and he hugged me

He said "its okay, do what you gotta do, hope you find that right guy that you will trust, sometimes you gotta let someone you love go, but I will miss you"
And then I left
And then I blocked him on all social media

Then this morning, he sent me an angry message saying this:
"Hey this is last message, but I wanted to say that... I can't believe you never trusted me, we have been together for over 2 years, all women are the same, always treat guys like shit, I tried to be a changed man, I did all the right things for you, I never cheated on you but you still never trusted me, I cried for 10 minutes after you left, you just said bye and left, so Im going to go back to my old f**kboy ways now, I already set up a date for that girl that likes me, and I'm probably going to f**k her tonight, I thought you were different to all the girls I've dated but I guess I was wrong, I really loved you, I can't love anyone else after you, so I'm just going to treat girls like shit, I don't give a shit anymore, so have a good life"

Im confused
Why would he send me an angry message when last night he hugged me when I was crying and saying its okay?
Do guys get over their ex girlfriend by having s*x with another girl the next day?