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First of all, let me preface that I hate police officers with the utmost fervour. So if you want to give me the "it's their job, they are good guys, if you have problem with the law, it's on you" bullshit, sit the fuck down, and zip it. In fact just to show how fair the police is - I will delete comments I don't like, if I have a "suspicion" that your comment doesn't conform to the policies of the website. Sounds about right, doesn't it?

So with that out of the way, my problem is this - there are countless cases of (mostly US) police "officers" (I use quotation marks because the most these people are capable of doing in an office is clean the toilet) falsely arresting someone, dragging them through the mud, humiliating them, holding them in custody (a funny word - it means "the protective care or guardianship of someone or something" while you can actually be raped or shanked in a country jail, not to mention have your reputation ruined) for 24 without any reason (and then they can release you, and arrest you again with any bullshit excuse).
This has gotten people fired on numerous cases for simply missing a workday, and bails often wreck people financially.

Usually after these debacles the police, even if they find the actual culprit, will never give any kind of compensation to the falsely arrested, humiliated and wronged individual, and in fact will treat that person as a discarded, used tissue paper - throw it away, "Be glad we don't charge you with something".

Of course if you dare complain, even explain your situation, that you are being falsely arrested, that you weren't even there, etc - instead of investigating, you'll get your face planted on the concrete, tossed into a police car like a criminal, and if you arrest, even shot.

Thus my question is - SHOULD THE POLICE COMPENSATE THE VICTIM IN THE CASE OF FALSE ARREST, AND IF SO, IN WHAT MANNER?

I had a girl “stage” a phone call to ditch me on a first date two nights ago. We met on bumble and she was very enthusiastic at first. But within 30 seconds of seeing me in person she ran off to “use the bathroom”. And she then staged a phone call from “her dad” saying he had a “flat tire”. From her body language I knew she was lying but a part of me really hoped she wasn’t. She insisted on giving me money for her appetizer I ordered. I then noticed 20 mins later she unmatched me on bumble. My suspicion was confirmed. I then sent her a nasty text message calling her out. I just hate being lied too. I don’t know if she got it or not. She might have blocked my number by then.

I never brought up sex or anything creepy at any point either.

I too was disappointed with her appearance. She was at least 20lbs heavier than what she looked like in her pics. I too lost physical interest in her. But unlike her lying cunt ass I have the respect just give someone the time of day if they drove out somewhere to meet me. I've been in that situation before and I feel like the decent thing to do is just talk to the person. We were in a public place after all.

Girls. Unless a guy is being directly creepy or rude, don’t do this to people. Yeah it’s uncomfortable but you can leave after the date. You are in public and you are safe.