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I don't have a specific one in mind. I don't even know if any of the one's I'd like are single, let alone would be interested in me, and I have zero idea of how to approach, but this is more about the concept of if it's a good fit for me or not.

The entire concept seems unfitting for me because of how social it is.

I hate parties, and I don't like lots of attention. But it's just that I'm racking my brain trying to find a girlfriend who shares my interests and hobbies, and there are very few ways that those interests/hobbies manifest in public that result in seeing an actual person, and every time I see someone I think I would click with, it's one of those people...

Nearly all the activities I enjoy result in staying home by myself. And I do not know how to find artistically talented gamer nerds outside of the rare comicon or the overpriced arcade (which aren't very populated by my age group to begin with). Anyone I'd like is either a shut-in while doing those activities, or has one of those jobs.

Assuming you knew I was attractive, talented, a gamer, an artist, and a nerd (ie a male equivalent to these women), do you think I should persue this? Or do you have a better idea for finding that type of girl?

This girl I been talking to for about 3 weeks. Some time she take long time to respond. Like past 10 hours+ mark. Someday she respond quickly sometime doesn’t. So couple days ago I ask her out on a date and she available the next after 5pm. So I was like okay I’m excited to see you. She arrive on time ( she live an hour away from me), on a dot! Dress nice and happy to see me. So we go get some boba tea. And we went on Long drive just to talk. She share her drink with me 5min after we got into the car. We both little shy at first but night went on we got comfortable and we both have really great time talking each other and enjoy each other company. Say we laugh like 90% of the time!. As I get comfortable I start asking if her hand is cold so I hold her hand, and she doesn’t seem to be bother, so we lock hand. After couple mins I let go cuz is getting sweat! And I did that couple of time and doesn’t seem to mind. Seem pretty happy and smiling about it. So I start moving in to her personal space and she didn’t care either. And she hold eye contact with me when I talk to her, and I’m the one who break the eye contact, look at her again and she still look at me. Her eyes is beautiful🔥. I did playful touch her lot but she doesn’t seem to mind. At the end of the date i playful said oh so we going to kiss? And she said with playful tone: I don’t have gum, now u make me overthink, and you got let it happen naturally u can just say it like that. So she hug me and kiss me on the cheek instead. And said I got wait for next time! And she said it again when we went for another hug. So next day I follow up with her. Say I enjoy our date and she enjoy it aswell! So I text her the only thing bother is no kiss, and she said don’t complain or you won’t get any. So I just laughs it off cuz is was funny. Next day she went back to long responding. What do you guys think is she actually into me or she just playing game or is she giving me hella test right now?

When its come to dating can mind games help to decide if he/she is potentially a good partner?