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I'm 19 she's 17. may not be in order

- I recently developed feelings for one of my closest female friends and she replied "Idk, not really tryna do anything since i just broke up". (she got out of her first serious EVER relationship a month ago) Week later we got drunk and made out, she told me she doesn't regret the making out
- One time we were discussing drama about her and her best friend, and she said randomly: "I know ill always be friends with her, just like you and me. not saying we would never date or anything though"
- Everytime I bring up dating she keeps saying "I dont know". I eventually confronted her and said "Listen I promise things won't be awkward between us, i just want an honest answer. do you not like me like that?" and she replied "I'm telling the truth, its not that. its just that i dont know. i just can't commit right now"
- One weekend we got into a HUGE argument and didn't talk for 5 days. The next time we hung out I said "I bet i killed our chances of dating" and she replied "Eh probably not"
- One time i told her "You are so confusing. most girls just say any polite rejection" then i told her "You must feel something for me? you won't reject me for some reason" and she replied "i think you're over analyzing. i dont know what the future holds. if we date, then awesome. if not, then oh well. i just go with the flow in life"
- I noticed she doesn't really respond to my flirting either in person or text. She kinda just goes "oh okay". I then texted her one day (in regards to that) "Lately I just feel like I'm putting in a lot of effort for someone that's not really acknowledging my feelings at all" and she replied "At the moment yes. I acknowledge your feelings but I don't want anything right now"

I know i bugged her a little too much, i actually apologized to her for all the bugging pretty recently. So my questions are why does she kinda shrug off my flirting? And do i have a chance? some of the things she said make it seem like i do

Women as a general for the most part need the media and women around them to tell them if a man is attractive. This comes in the form of girl approval and is the ultimate deciding factor if a woman will want you for ONS, or a relationship.

Girl approval comes about because female gender is highly competitive. Quote take from a woman:

"Women do not have friends we have competition. We lie to our so-called female friends and pretend we are loyal and faithful to them, just like we do with the men in our lives. Secretly, we are jealous of each other, and we want all of the desirable things that other women have—most especially when it comes to our female friends’ things. And we consider men to be things."

So when a woman is deciding whether to get with you she needs to know that her friends and women around you are a catch. You can be a great guy on paper and boyfriend/lover for her but if her friends and/or women around her say your a loser then she's going to say your not a catch.
We see similar instances of girl approval in club settings when men just happen to approach the wrong woman for the first dance. If she flat out rejects him other women will be watching and basically your chances of getting a dance with another girl is greatly reduced. 2 or 3 more times and your basically looked at as a weirdo/loser in the club by women who is defective.
Girl approval can also work when we look at you getting rejected by a woman initially only to get an even hotter woman to be your girlfriend.
This was the quote taken by a female on gag as to why women would now consider chasing and wanting to be with you after that. This was the reason made by a female "Girls trust other girls' taste."

Women are also heavily influence by what media tells them is hot. Take 2 ugly guys but are actors and put them in a blockbuster movie and suddenly their sex symbols.