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You and your girlfriends are having an awsome night out at dinner. Lets say there's 8-10 of you, food, wine, dressed up, it's a great time! You are open to someone approaching, that is, it's not like a meeting where you don't want to deal with interference.

A guy approaches and introduces himself, he's a decent looking guy, he has a chance with anyone. Before he approached, he glanced the table and saw a girl he was interested in! What's his best approach from a women's viewpoint?

Option 1: He approaches and for quite a while, ignores the one he is interested in. By doing so, he establishes his value with the group and builds tension with the one of his interest. Benefit to the guy, he isn't putting his cards on the table, he could still select anyone if he discovers there is a better match! Note, this is what you will hear players describe as best approach!

Option 2: He quickly and pleasantly notes which women he felt interest in. However, he gives lots of attention to everyone by being socially fun and chatting up the group and establishing that he's fun, good guy to be around. Flaw, he takes some mystery out of it and suspense, but as well, you may feel special... or more nervous being called out?

You might have heard about this Covington bullshit. So when I first heard of this story it was at nigh, it showed up in my google feed and I saw the title say something about "White teens harass native elderly Native American veteran" and it had a picture just like the one above, I shit you not when I saw it I said "Oh fuck off!!!" I knew the story was obviously fake, it even had everything a fake news story needed< white males, MAGA hats, and minorities, so I thought that this story was never going to go past online news and this was nothing (because it IS nothing) and I plugged my phone in and went to bed, and I expected everyone else to do the same. So the next morning when I came back from the gym and turned on my computer and saw that the entire internet LOST ITS FUCKING MIND! I mean, are you fucking serious, this story is as newsworthy as raccoons fighting over a bloody tampon from someone's garbage, there wasn't even any violence, hell I don't think there was even any littering, well you can mention the "Black Israelites" which I never even knew existed till this, some punk ass group of adults harassing children doesn't make the main stream news, but some white boy smiling at a Native American beating his drum makes top national headlines. Now these kids are being doxxed, harassed, receiving death threat, etc. and it's fake news and social media that's mostly to blame, so if any of these kids get hurt, get killed, or their school gets attacked, we need to go after Kathy Griffin, CNN and everybody who participated in this.

One more thing I want to mention is that they keep bringing up the fact that this guy is a Veteran, WHEN THE FUCK DID LIBERALS CARE ABOUT VETERANS? So they think Veterans are no big whoop and they participated in wars and killings and should have no special treatment, but when the Veteran does something that fits their narrative they will exploit it to the fullest extent.

Valentine's Day is a great day to celebrate love with your long term partner, but what do you do if you just started dating someone the week before Valentine's Day? What if it's your first date?

There are some expectations about a date on Valentine's Day based on customs and traditions. Typically, a guy makes an extra effort to make it a nice date. He sends his girl a dozen red roses with a note that says how much she means to him. He might arrive for the date with a box of fine chocolates as a gift. The girl has gone to extra trouble to make herself look just right for this special occasion. They share a fine meal together and perhaps move on to a lounge for a drink afterwards. If the relationship already includes sex, both the guy and girl probably expect that the night will conclude with the two of them in bed together. If the relationship is relatively new but they are both feeling a physical attraction, this may be the night when they decide to share physical intimacy for he first time.

So what if it's a first date? Or a second date? If I ask the girl out to dinner for Valentine's Day and I go to all this trouble to make her feel special, she may think that I am expecting her to give herself to me physically at the end of the night. I certainly don't want to make a girl feel pressured on that subject. Maybe she will think this is too much, too soon, and I must be desperate of I am trying so hard to impress her. But if I don't ask her out, will she think that I am being cheap or maybe conclude that I don't feel she is worth the effort? Will she feel a bit depressed because she is sitting at home while all of her friends are going out for Valentine's Day?

What should I do? I don't face this dilemma this year because I am living with my girlfriend who I have been dating for the past year. But I have faced this question previously. How would you want to handle this situation?