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@inspired by recent post on plus sized women in bikinis

{pics from my own swim wear last summer... sorry I didn’t understand zooming cropping and marking🤦‍♂️😬 bit I’ve he sent since ☝️😅}

Many answers were in my opinion self centered and and unrealistic.” I don’t want to see it so it is wrong”.

The illogic often being “ If our of shape, should not be seen.

Dont look? 🤔👀🤷‍♀️

Do you think I want to see a strangers butt cheeks in my face? I surely do not. Solution- I just don’t stare bc I don't know what I’ll see and do not want want to find out.
Problem.
Solved.

I’m just wondering... for ex A burn victim is fit in shape thin but you find their burns unsightly, do you say they should not leave their house?

I’m guessing you would not say this, most likely not THINK it... likely, if reasonably polite, will avoid staring. If you are enlightened you will be ale to look and see a person not scars.. few people will say “stay home forever. Maybe extreme narcissists 🤷‍♀️

So seriously, why can’t you do the same for people in Bikinis... Do you seriously think anyone not perfect -in your opinion- should walk around in a tent?

bikinis are cooling. That’s a big motivator -not simply showing off. why shouldn’t a large person be cool. No one knows why anyone is in the shape they are in snd who cares anyhow it’s not your body.

(let alone the fact being large doesn’t mean you will look bad. Inversely being thin doesn’t mean you will look good.)

Swim wear should be primarily about swimming. What kind of world Is it when where attire comes before the activity you are dressed for.

I think this seve dependence on aesthetic is spiritually bankrupt and 💯 demoralizing.

I can’t claim superior there bc I tend to avoid showing my body when I swim due to scars. Length I go to - it’s absurd.

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I’m not talking about someone you never talked to. A girl who you talked to a few times and flirted with. You even went out of your way to talk to her and visit her at work but you didn’t exchange contact information. Both people are shy. Girl no longer works at that job and doesn’t know if she’ll ever see him again. Would it be weird to to text him? Something along the lines of I hope you are doing good. You seem really nice and I would hate myself if I didn’t make an effort. If you would like to talk text me. If not than I understand and will leave you alone.