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Just seems like every other person these days say things like “I want someone who wants to travel the world with me!” Or the states/cities in USA case... i mean maybe its cause im a homebody lol, but i’ve never cared to travel like that. Im shocked Aladdin and Little Mermaid are my fave Disney movies cause i never wanted to leave home for long. The places i even considered going were simply because of certain attractions that my city lacked. I've never been interested in crusies or historical artifacts and learning new languages...

For instance, I went to/wanted to go to
-TX for better job pay and theme parks.
- NYC to be an editor or enjoy fashion week or celebrate in Times Square
- ATL since its similar to here but with better scenery, shops and Six flags.
- NC for better pay and apartment hunting
- Vegas for the attractions and casinos.
- Miami for the beaches and restaurants
- Orlando for theme parks, shops and hotels
- Aspen for the skiing and lodges
- Bali for the spas
- Dubai for skiing, malls, hotels, attractions
- Gold Coast for the theme parks and surfing - Paradise Island for the beaches and Atlantis/Aquaventure waterpark

Call me boring if you must, but other than that, i was never really trying to go anywhere else. I’ve always been more comfortable being somewhere familiar. Like i wonder will i struggle with finding a partner whos not obsessed with traveling, because if im being honest, this was one of the downfalls of some past relationships. I wanted to settle down in one spot and they wanted to constantly explore new places #FeelFreeToList #ToTravelOrNotToTravel

I saved some of the sweet stuff he wrote me in my notes everything i tell him i mean it because i am an honest person but do you think that he’s telling the truth in what he wrote or is he just acting? He has been in 3 relationships and I’ve only been in one real relationship. Here are some things that he wrote:

When i told him “ you’re always making me smile To me you’re special too you’re definitely one of a kind I don’t think i’ll ever meet someone as wonderful and amazing as you i’m very glad to have met a guy like you ♥️ i’m speaking from my heart“ He also told me something like us being apart only made his feelings grow stronger by the hour. Also we’re not dating yet but we both mutually like each other and his bumble is still there but it hasn’t been updated it’s kind of old i don’t think i should expect him to delete it since we’re not dating yet. Ever since our college closed I’ve been the one inviting him over to meet my parents which he said he was willing to do since the beginning.

I am getting disappointed of men not wanting a relationship and just something casual.

He told me he is more looking on casual side than a relationship if he is being honest with himself and me. I told him I am looking for a relationship. He sounded unsure what he wants. That was my red flag but he is pretty persistent with me.

We had 3 dates and they all went pretty well. We actually spent the last entire weekend together. It was so fun and we had a blast. He held my hand in public the entire time. He took me out to so many places and spent a lot of time together. We are pretty sweet together and very lovey-dovey in public.

I hate it but I am starting to fall for him. He had been treating me really well. He puts me first in a lot of situations and was a complete gentlemen. I felt loved and wanted. It feels like a serious relationship. Before me, he had been in long term relationships. He comes across as a relationship type of guy, but he is telling me he wants something more casual.

Since he already said it casual, I should not be expecting much. But I can’t help it and asked him out next weekend. Do you think I can change his mind about being casually dating? Do you think he’s only saying casually because he’s unsure? Should I keep dating other guys?