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My cousin has dated her boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. However, once in a while the past still hurts her.
When they were 15-16 year-olds, the guy used to be a jerk. He was one of the main social bullies (put bad nicknames on her) and used spread jokes about her facial acne and glasses. While laughing, he once someone would have to be blind or drunk to ever date her. He gave her a hard time and she used to come home stressed out. She hated school.

He came to eating his own words and things happened. I heard karma got him during the summer and he softened up. He worked hard and did so much to be a better person. What impressed her the most was that his apologies and promises were then followed by actions such as when he got involved in anti-bullying campaigns and participated (still does) in a couple animal shelters. He gained her friendship first. It wasn't until late Now 2019 (they were college juniors by then), that they officially started dating.

He's been treating her great since and has changed. He knows she's hurt at times and still apologizes, claiming he'll do anything to make that hurt go away. Needless to say, he informed his friends and I that he was to surprise her on Valentine's Day but not to tell her. He's hoping the answer is a yes. We know what it is. He really loves her. If someone worked hard to amend their awful behaviors and hasn't relapsed since, should they be forgiven?

So my sibling & I share vehicles and due to his being in the shop we're down a car. He's been driving me to work but next week or so may have to change my schedule around.

And I'd been trying to figure out what days. Well anyway this colleague sort of annoyed me (speaking without thinking) and as I had been weighing not working with him for a bit to get to know an older adept colleague better (she & I work conflicting shifts normally) I said... so & so I'm going to take three days off for the next week or so (all days he works).
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All's good. And then about fifteen minutes later he brings up that I am going to change shifts so I am not working with him for a week or so. He didn't outright say it was going to be a problem but if nothing else I would say he was put out by these shift changes as it took a bit to drop the chitchat about cars/shifts.