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So before I begin, here's a little bit about me. I'm a Christian girl. I don't do drugs or go to parties. I don't sleep around or believe in free sex. I drink occasionally but very rarely (like maybe once or twice a month). I'm in church every Sunday and when I'm not working or in church I'm either with friends or working out. I'm a veteran and My idea of a fun Saturday night is having dinner with girlfriends followed by a movie. Now because I'm a single woman looking for a relationship, I'm on dating apps: Christian mingle and OkCupid are the two that I was using , but I'm thinking about disabling my OkCupid account because I have a problem with that site that I don't have with Christian mingle: even though it states nothing promiscuous in my profile, I get so many messages from users on that site hinting towards sex. I put the same information on the profile that I provided here yet a common message that I get is "you look so sweet and innocent. Are u open to corruption?" One guy even saw the military uniform in one of my pictures and pointed out that I was probably great in bed. What do you all think? I seldom get offers like that from men irl unless they're drunk but on that site it seems to run rampant. Does being what some call sweet and innocent make a woman more attractive or is it the stigma about military women being promiscuous that attracts these creeps (I don't seem to get messages like that on mingle but that's not to say that I haven't gotten them there). What do you all think?

You dated someone for two years, he was the best person ever, but you had below zero passion for him which transformed into irritation and you broke up. You could never imagine having sex with him and actually didn't have for 2 years. After that you cried your eyes out for a whole year out of guilt that you hurt such a wonderful person. After that you were deeply infatuated for a whole year by another boyfriend. After that you found your peace and security and also high sex drive and understanding with your current boyfriend. But sometimes the guilt of breaking your ex's heart as well as his great personality make you see him in your dreams at night. Is it technically possible to love him while being in love and in lust with your current boyfriend? P. S. I wanna spend a lifetime of troubles and happiness with my current one.

This guy and I are a fantastic match as far as compatibility is concerned. We share the same sense of humour, have similar interests and on the same page in terms of morals and values. He is actually boyfriend material. Very caring and attentive also.

Date 1 was bowling. We had a great time. We were affectionate and the date ended with a kiss. Date 2 he took me on a jetboat ride and lunch afterwards, great time again.

In between these dates I wasn't really feeling that magic excitement to hurry up and see him again. I wasn't even feeling the need to text or talk everyday with him. It left me confused as to why. I did have a little bit of an attraction to him but it was just so so.

On the second date when he dropped me home, I invited him in. We got very sexy on the couch, straddling him, bit of grinding and massive make out session. I hadn't done anything like this with anyone since I broke up with my ex 4 mths ago so naturally I was getting a little excited at the thought another man was totally into me and desired me that way.

Because he wasn't actually setting me alight with his kisses I decided to sleep with him more so because I wanted to see if having sex would ignite something and whether afterwards I would feel some sort of bond or attachment. I didn't feel attachment. The sex itself was not bad.

Isn't it meant to be happy and exciting, your supposed to want to shag the shit out of that person every time you are together. Your supposed to want to chat with them daily and initiate the affection and flirting. Your supposed to want to hurry up and see them again. It was like that with my 2nd husband, I was giddy with excitement and it was like that with my ex, by the third date with my ex I was totally lost in him and wanted to be with him all the time. I compared all that to this lovely guy and it wasn't there... The actual spark with this guy has been a little lacklustre and my attitude has been just "meh". Why?