The 'Curse' of Being Handsome

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The 'Curse' of Being Handsome

It is believed that good looking men have been have been gifted by nature. Many people think it's good to be good looking, it increases your self confidence, boosts up your ego, makes you feel good about yourself, it's easier to get women, blah blah blah and the list goes on.

But hey it can prove out to be living hell for some people. Let me tell you how.

The 'Curse' of Being Handsome

1. Jealousy/Envy

Its pretty obvious that handsome guys do get envied upon their looks but those men who are considered 'average looking'. Handsome guys do have a lot of friends who are very insecure in being around them. This is of course due to the fact that they get all the looks of the women and that they are the centre of attraction of the entire group.

The 'Curse' of Being Handsome

2. Intimidation

The problem with good looks in dealing with women especially teenagers is intimidation. Girls do get intimidated by a handsome guy, not all though. Handsome guys first have to prove that they just don't want have sex, which is not so with 'average guys'.

The 'Curse' of Being Handsome

3. Coming off as arrogant in being confident

Handsome guys are considered arrogant, even if they are confident about their looks. Oh come on you know they are handsome, they know they are handsome, you admit it, what's wrong with them admitting it?

The 'Curse' of Being Handsome

4. Considered as a player most of the time

With good looks, comes the great potential to attract the opposite gender. It is a very common mistake made by the people to consider that every handsome guy is a player, which is absolutely not so. It is true that they get women's attention many times but not every handsome guy is playing around with women.

The 'Curse' of Being Handsome

5. High expectations of the people

So you are good with your looks? You must be good with your studies, you must be good in sports, you must be confident, you must be on top of your game, you must be having fun all the time... Really people? They are also humans after all, they too have their flaws and they too have their worries, nobody's living a perfect life.

The 'Curse' of Being Handsome

6. Constantly being stared at

Good looking guys have it coming, they can't do anything about it even if they want to. People do stare at things which they find appealing to their eyes, so are handsome guys. Some handsome guys like it some do not. Even handsome guys have anxiety and panic attacks, yeah that's true.

The 'Curse' of Being Handsome

7. Nearly impossible to find true love

For a guy like me, yeah I know I am handsome, I don't want to be in casual relationships, fucking up my virginity with just anyone. Yeah, I do care about my virginity and it's my choice with whom I want to lose it. I don't want to be playing around with women just to live my teens to the fullest. No sir, there are handsome guys like me who just wanna love their lady and give her everything they have, love them like a lover, take care of them like a man and be there for them.

The 'Curse' of Being Handsome

8. Loneliness

Having constantly being envied and judged upon the looks, most of the handsome guys are found to be lonely. Due to the fact that guys feel insecure and jealous, they don't wanna be with handsome guys and while being considered as a player, girls don't wanna even talk to them.

All these are my personal experiences which I have seen in my real life and have felt greatly. It took me several years to come to these conclusions and I know I am right as I have done nothing wrong which would result in me being hated upon by people. It may not be true for all of you but I know it is for me, and I am dealing with this every day.

The 'Curse' of Being Handsome

Thanks for reading it.

The 'Curse' of Being Handsome
The 'Curse' of Being Handsome
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