Since you talk about your virginity and being a teenager, you are forgiven for the follies of your youth. But anyone older with you would have to earn a clear C for conceited. One thing every self-declared handsome guy needs is to cross paths with a girls who doesn't agree or maybe an entire social circle where the perception is changed. That should usually cure any ideas of "yeah I know I'm handsome but..."
These cons are nothing, far better than being the opposite. If only you knew what being unattractive was like, instead of the "cons" you mentioned getting negative comments on you appearance.
If you could spend just one week looking like me you'll never know a con for being handsome.
Good for you for saving it for the right girl but seriously this shit is retarded. Slightly elevated levels of the same bullshit everybody else has to deal with in return for the ability to actually keep a woman around because she won't jump ship for some hotter guy.
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I wrote something similar recently. It's a genuine issue but people really cannot see past "you're pretty, so your life must be perfect and easy so stop whinging". Bullied For Being Beautiful ↗
I'm not a handsome guy, but I do agree with your list. I knew a co-worker who was everyone's wish list but he never once was cocky or anything of that nature. He was a good genuine guy.
Agreed to some points. Especially the intimidating one. One of my friend told me that that's because you are tall (6feet 1inch) I feel awkward when they try to avoid me and feel like as if am a predator (sad sometimes)
I read the headlines, but 7&8 seems to be spot on Most girls would avoid me in life, online they have the guts , that is why i stayed single for so long
I have to agree with most of what you said , it is a blessing and a curse. However I have never really been very lonely. Other men being jealous is the worst part.
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Since you talk about your virginity and being a teenager, you are forgiven for the follies of your youth. But anyone older with you would have to earn a clear C for conceited. One thing every self-declared handsome guy needs is to cross paths with a girls who doesn't agree or maybe an entire social circle where the perception is changed. That should usually cure any ideas of "yeah I know I'm handsome but..."
lol you proved his point. he's confident in his looks and thats somehow conceited?
@pavlove Confidence in one's looks is not the same as stating something as objective reality.
What are you talking about. Look up the word confident
@Swolebusser Struck a nerve, didn't I.
Nah.
@Swolebusser Lmao. Then why bother replying.
These cons are nothing, far better than being the opposite. If only you knew what being unattractive was like, instead of the "cons" you mentioned getting negative comments on you appearance.
If you could spend just one week looking like me you'll never know a con for being handsome.
Good for you for saving it for the right girl but seriously this shit is retarded. Slightly elevated levels of the same bullshit everybody else has to deal with in return for the ability to actually keep a woman around because she won't jump ship for some hotter guy.
I wrote something similar recently. It's a genuine issue but people really cannot see past "you're pretty, so your life must be perfect and easy so stop whinging". Bullied For Being Beautiful ↗
I'm not a handsome guy, but I do agree with your list. I knew a co-worker who was everyone's wish list but he never once was cocky or anything of that nature. He was a good genuine guy.
Okay I see where you are coming from but #7 and #8 are not true at all unless your a shitty person
They are true in most cases without being the person shitty
I think if you were me, you would understand my point
I can tell you the same thing
If I was good looking AND a good guy I probably wouldn’t be single. I only consider myself one of those things
What if a handsome guy is suffering from anxiety and doesn't always keep on clarifying everyone he is a good guy too?
Anxiety? Then I understand because I have that too. I only consider myself a good guy because a few people have told me that
Now you know.
I didn’t know you had anxiety, I think if you wrote the curse of having anxiety a lot of people would agree with you
But the anxiety doesn't seem to get noticed by the people as easily as looks do
Okay maybe, from my experience my anxiety shows up with women more than my looks do
Agreed to some points. Especially the intimidating one. One of my friend told me that that's because you are tall (6feet 1inch)
I feel awkward when they try to avoid me and feel like as if am a predator (sad sometimes)
I read the headlines, but 7&8 seems to be spot on
Most girls would avoid me in life, online they have the guts , that is why i stayed single for so long
It’s ok gorgeous.. you won’t be beautiful forever! You will grow old and ugly with the rest of us! Lol 😂... 🙄 people and their first world problems!
At least we had our time.
I didn't know guys would be jealous of each other's look.
Well 20% of guys get all the girls and the bottom 80% get LITERALLY nothing, ever. So what do you think?
Shit. I must be handsome, then. I think I found love, though, so maybe not
What makes you think you found/did not find?
The incredible woman I'm with. Best relationship ever. So maybe I'm not handsome after all.
Being a handsome man simply makes you attractive to the most predatory and manipulative women.
I have to agree with most of what you said , it is a blessing and a curse. However I have never really been very lonely. Other men being jealous is the worst part.
i can relate to that almost 100%
i know it by myself and from my point of view and being honest its quite sad :(
The most uncomfortable is being looked by other men
I wonder what the next "poor me" take will be.
"The Curse of Being Rich and Successful"
Everybody wants to be a victim it seems.
I swear I saw this before why is being show on the front of the page again?
No you didn't
Pretty sure I did the picture look the same from another mytake similar to this.
I only agree with like a couple of your points but interesting myTake.
And with what points you don't agree?
i'm just thinking about why i'm lonely and thanks to you i finally realize...
i must be handsome
;DDDDDD
You get to have girls.
Girls are interested in handsome men
They are willing to have sex anytime
Why being so negative about being a handsome?
Because the perks are known by everyone
You get lot of ladies?
Attention? Yes a lot. But I don't want casual relationships with them or just sleeping around with them.