If your kids weren't doing anything with their lives after they graduated highschool, when would you wonder if that's just who they are gonna be?

[Anonymous]

Instead of being optimistic that they will figure out and get motivated

After a year or two of graduating highschool

Anything after 5 years if they still are doing nothing don't expect change

Would give them like a decade or so since brains mature differently

By the time they are 30, they should have seen where their peers are at and tried to better themselves

At some point you might get them tested for ADHD or Autism if that were to keep up

[slatyb]

Wondering? What's the use of wondering? I would be wondering if they were happy and if there was anything I could to do to help them. Sometimes there isn't much parents can do for adult children who are failing to thrive.

[Nikki1989]

I would be booting them out of the house by 18. You should have a good idea of what you want to do with your life by then.

[Anonymous]

Maybe 5 years