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Let's say you just turned 17 years old. Your parents hate curly hair and your mom offen tells you, you look like shit, curly hair is the worst hair, you look horrible and she says you'll never find a person to date or marry because you have curly hair and she says she'd rather you wear a garage bag on your head then wear your natural hair. Your dad says you look pretty with straight hair but when your hair is curly he says it looks trashy on you and he suggests you always straighten your hair.

If you don't straighten your hair or wear a wig your parents won't allow you to leave the house. They'll force you to be home schooled, refuse to take you to Job interviews, they won't take you to the store with them, and they won't allow you to go anywhere with your friends.

And dudes, if you're parents refuse to take you anywhere unless you cut your hair extremely short, or straighten it otherwise they won't take you anywhere, and say how trashy you look everytime they see you what would you do?

Okay, so I’ve been on and off with this guy for 2 years now. It just seems like we always end up back together. For a while he he used to hit me and my mom took it to the court and now he is risking going to jail for years and I feel really scared for him. On Thursday I left with him and didn’t tell anybody, I left my phone and disappeared for a few days. Today he had court and said he’d probably go away for a while at his next court date. When I came back from being gone Thursday my best friend told me (as she has many times) that she hates him and she said if I go missing with him again she can’t be my friend anymore. I know the obvious answer because he did hit me and this is the affect of his actions. But I just can’t imagine I’m going away for 8 years... that sounds so lonely... but my best friend means the world to me. I don't know somebody please tell me what to do or if anyone has any advice. PLEASE