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I hate everything single thing about feminism
I reject everything that's girlish and feminine (songs, clothes, people, etc.)
I have a bad relationship with every female in my family
I'm gay but i don't want to be in a relationship with a gay man who's girlish
The way a woman walks bothers me
I don't have any female friends and I despise being their "Gay best friends"
I avoid speaking to females
I get along better with guys
If a man is bisexual or straight, I'd rather be his friend than try to sleep with him. I may find myself attracted to them, but I don't want to be sexually or romantically involved with someone who's attracted females. I'd rather only with a man who's actually gay and not girlish.

Gay man who aren't girlish exist, so don't try throwing these stupid stereotypes at me...

So many people say that they want their SO to be their best friend but, if their best friend says "Hey, let's try to be more than friends, we often hear that cheesy line: "But I don't want to lose you as a friend." That seems to result in an automatic "urge to kill" for some of us.

Sometimes, of course, it is a transparent excuse that your friend uses because they don't want to say, "But. . . I wouldn't have sex with you if you were the last guy on the planet." But, sometimes, I think people legitimately think that they want to hold on to the friendship and not take any chances.

If you already have developed sexual or romantic feelings for your friend, can you simply ignore those feelings and remain in a purely platonic status? Ladies, will you be okay with hearing your guy friend talk about the new girl and how cool she is when YOU want to be the one at the center of his universe? Guys, how will you handle it when she inadvertently says something that reveals she spent the night with the new Mr. Wonderful? "How can she fuck that jerk?" you think to yourself. Girls, do you want to be there to receive an invitation to his wedding and watch him walk down the aisle with someone else?

So, what do you do when you develop feelings for a friend? I think the friendship probably isn't going to continue if your feelings are rejected or spurned, so why not just go for it because

a. if you lose the friendship, it was probably going to be lost anyway, but

b. if you go forward and start dating and it works out, isn't that the best of all possible worlds?

Have you ever been in this position? How did you handle it?