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I had a thing with a guy on our schools hockey team last August-November. It ended poorly as he was manipulative and controlling. He also made me feel worthless and sexually harassed me. After we ended, his teammate and best friend tried talking to me. I felt wrong about it as I had really liked his friend and wasn't trying to gain a reputation, as I wanted a relationship not a hookup. I soon realized he was trying to sleep with as many girls as possible. I called him a horn dog to a few of my friends but some how word got back to him and he blocked me on everything.

Soon after this, the first guy who I liked tried hitting me up again. I said for him to please leave me alone and then I blocked him on everything as he was playing with my emotions. Now i've been in a happy relationship for a year but im just annoyed that they still react to me.

To this day, more than a year and a half later, his whole team still stares and whispers as I walk by. I'm not the only girl who they've done this too, yet why do they react like this towards me still.
Even my friends have been noticing how much they still care and pay attention to me. It makes me feel really insecure and I start shaking anytime I see the two guys out in public.

Is it because I got the last word and he wasn't able to get me back under his spell and he's butt hurt?

I never usually believe in Astrology i’ve always said that it is bullshit because I am a Leo and Leo’s are supposed to be confident and attention seeking but instead my personality is the opposite from how 8’m supposed to be I am very shy, sweet, calm and introverted but there is something weird that keeps going on with guys. So i noticed that every guy i have dated or every guy that I’ve tried to date has always ended up being a failure the first guy that asked me to be his girlfriend he was very cold and at the end he ended the relationship because he had feelings for some other girl, the 2nd guy was the first guy i ever tried to online date with through bumble he ditched me and then unfriended me out of nowhere I was never his girlfriend by the way, and then my most recent ex boyfriend that i met on Tinder left me to be with his ex. And the weird thing is that all of these guys in which the relationships all failed or almost relationships failed were born in December and had the same star sign (Sagittarius) . I don’t usually believe in Astrology but this has happend too many times and next time i date or try to date a guy I don’t think i want him to be a sagittarius anymore and i might avoid them. Maybe i just have bad luck with guys in general who knows.