Was this girl interested in me?

[Anonymous]

Basically I met this girl at work and she was flirty and touchy with me and suddenly completely stopped talking to me out of the blue she's gone cold and distant.. here are the signs she gave me: first time i we talked she told me that me and my brother are cute, she told me i was cute a few times, told me i was getting all the girls, presented me to her friend, gave me a cute nickname ( my name is max and she called me maxou which is a cuter variant of my name in french), told me we we're gonna fight after i teased her lightly, when i was doing her break she came back because she wanted to talk to me, i noticed that when she was doing a skin test with me and 2 others guys she just put the machine on theirs hand but with me she gently grabbed my hand, wanted to stare deep into my eyes after i told her i had green/blue eyes, touched my arm, hands, and shoulders a few times, and when i was talking to her once she was telling me that she think im a great guy, im nice im cute and bla bla bla and when i was about to leave she grabbed my arm and told me that i was VERY cute and VERY handsome and finally after we we're done working she told me to wait for her because she wants to show me where she lives and on our way there she told me that if she ever mad at me just to feed her so that she can go back to normal and asked me a few personale question like where i lives , how long have i been living here, and well after she showed me her house i just left on the spot and didn't flirt back with her at all because i had a girlfriend and now she just doesn't speak to me anymore so im wondering did she really liked me that bad to simply flush me out completely?

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I heard that when she was new at my work she had recently broke up with Her ex boyfriend and that she emotionally dependent... could she just wanted some attention/validation from me?

[Anonymous]

First: Grammar - every thing sounds like a run-on sentence.

Second: Are you still in contact with this girl?

Third: She probably had an interest in you. You had mentioned that you have a girlfriend. Please don't be led astray from the partner that you already have.

Fourth: She wants you to chase her. Don't waste time playing that game.

[Asker]

Sorry about my grammar, No like i said she doesn't say anything To me anymore and i am no longer in a relationship and when i asked the girl im talking about she said no and denied giving me signs while she was all over me back then.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh she like play like that huh? Sorry to sound sort of quote on quote "like an ass" in my first post. Okay I stand corrected thinking you were still in a relationship.

She can deny it if she wants to. I will not waste time with someone like her. You shall find someone better. Could it be that you still want to take a chance with the said girl in your post?

[Asker]

Well i started To really like Her and then poof she wants cold and distant and didn't speak To me pretty much at the same time i broke up with my ex girlfriend and i asked her out and she said no and you know denied everything and said that there was only friendship between us, but if it was only friendship then why did she stopped talking to me and is acting cold and distant suddenly? Im sure she really liked me and it pissed Her off that i didn't strike while the iron was hot

[Opinion Owner]

That is most likely the reason (exactly what you had just said). She probably found out that you had a girlfriend at the time and (possibly) thinks that you're still going steady with that other person. So yes, she probably is not interested. If you still like take a gamble with her, you will have to find ways to show that you are practically single.

If anything, take the loss and move on. Time does not wait for anybody.

[Asker]

Yeah i think this ship is sunk. Sucks that she got pissed at me for basically not making a move ( i heard plenty of time that girls hates when they are obvious about theirs attraction and just flush the guy they liked) anyway thanks a lot friend !

[Opinion Owner]

Godspeed to you brother!

[Avicenna]

In a nutshell, yes. You didn't give her what she wanted and now she's pouting.

[Asker]

I believe it is called auto rejection what's happening right now right?

[Asker]

Also it's weird because when i asked her out she denied giving me signs and rejected me as you can see on my post she was all over me and then poof suddenly cold and distant and doesn't talk To me at work anymore

[Avicenna]

Yeah, thats right. It's messed up.

Thanks for the MHO.

[Asker]

No problem friend but i heard that when she was new at my work she just got out of a break Up and was really sad and one of my friend told me that she might just used me for attention and validation that would explain why out of the blue she just stopped talking to me..

[Asker]

Sorry for the late reply but when you said that right you meant about the auto rejection right?

[Iron_Man]

Yes

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[Asker]

But why is she suddenly so cold and distant? Because of my lack of escalation? Because she rejected me and denied giving me signs which as you saw, she was all over me

[Iron_Man]

She's a flake not mentally stable wishy washy