I used to be with less confidence, and it's a turn off. Now I have it more. Trying to be more assertive, funny, flow, show more interest etc...
Yet I still notice that girls just want to be friends with me, even when I show interest.
I think I still use to overthink and I give too much of a damn (not chasing her, but still sees I care a lot), too nice. Of course I don't want to be a maniac and I still wanna be myself and not playing a character. I need to learn to tease more, maybe push pull too?
How do I get more attention and be "less nice"?