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Me and my ex boyfriend been together for nearly 4 years and we have broke up and made up many times.
I know its quite a toxic relationship

For example:
We argue... and one of us says:
"Im done"
"Im packing my stuff and leaving"
Then we break up and no contact

Then a week or 3 weeks max... we go back together
he's usually the one calling me first to talk

Last week we argued again and I told him im leaving and packing my stuff
At first he's like
"Why u doing this again? Dont waste mine and your time.. you should have left if you dont want to be together anymore"

Then i kept saying it

And he said
"Do whatever you want.. im done bye"

We haven't spoken ever since then
Its been 1 week

Me and my ex boyfriend been together for nearly 4 years and we have broke up and made up many times.

We argue... and one of us says:
"Im done"
"Im packing my stuff and leaving"
We break up
Then a week or 3 weeks max... we go back together
he's usually the one calling me first to talk

Last week we argued again and I told him im leaving and packing my stuff
At first he's like
"Why u doing this again? Dont waste mine and your time.. you should have left if you dont want to be together anymore"

Then i kept saying it

And he said
"Do whatever you want.. im done bye"

We haven't spoken ever since then
Its been 1 week

What’s the requirement?

Unless they're the father/mother of your children, there is no other reason to communicate with them. There is nothing to talk about.

If a boyfriend dumps me and wants to keep me as a friend, I'll interpret that as getting demoted to the lowest position on a job; then dealing with the humiliation and insult to your own ego/self-esteem. The guy would likely feel the same way if I did that too. So I think blocked permanently if that's not someone you'll have children with is the correct way. Exes are not meant to become your friends. That's what I believe. How about you?