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Im sure the polls will result in E being the winner but I feel like I see a lot of people on GAG say they dislike both long hair on guys and short hair on girls. I personally do not like long hair on a dude. Some can pull it off but I’d always want to ask him to cut it and i know ite not good to change anyone so I just rather not date someone with long hair. I think pixie cuts can be somewhat cute on girls but i hate seeing the shaved head on a female. Some will say hair is hair but I guess we’re about to see. Would you be turned off to dating someone who has the short vs long look? Is it a dealbreaker?
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Most women and girls these days wear makeup, contact lens, thread their eyebrows which looked the same most of the time as for dyeing their hair, it’s getting common but not extremely common due to the job they had. Most of the time when they see me, they look a while and didn’t give a shit which was a good thing, since I hated being stared at. Then at my previous job as an IT Helpdesk agent, Dorcas the marketing assistant sometimes kept looking at me. The first time she looked at me, her expression then changed to soul mood, she even looked at me from head to toe like she was comparing herself to me.

She had eyelash extensions, makeup, contact lens and dyed hair. The second time, I was in a bus waiting for the bus to drop at a specific bus stop so I can get off, that’s when I felt that someone was staring at me, when I looked up from my phone, I saw another girl. She was the same race as me, with dyed blonde hair, makeup, contact lens and threaded eyebrows. She was already glaring at me, not staring at me in a polite way. The way she stared at me was very uncomfortable, I didn’t recognise her because she was a random stranger and not someone I knew. There was a hint of jealousy from her expression. Firstly I didn’t wear any makeup, wear any contacts, thread my eyebrows to look like a Korean star and lastly I didn’t dye my hair whatsoever. And yet she was jealous of me like what the heck? Sometimes being a woman doesn’t mean I understand all women. The reasons why I didn’t put in effort to look very attractive was because: 1: I didn’t want to spend money unnecessarily. 2: I didn’t want to attract attention and 3: I didn’t want to get jealous looks.

I always thought that me not beautifying myself won’t make anyone jealous at all but still there will always be some others who wants to compare themselves to me. It seems I was extremely naive when I thought that not beautifying myself means not a single person will be jealous.

I felt that it’s nobody business to tell me how I should dress or groom myself to look a certain way. If they don’t like or hate it that’s fine I’m not someone who gets offended when people don’t like it. But it’s none of their business to judge or tell me what I should do with my body. Don’t like it? Cool. Judging and telling ME what I should DO to my BODY? That’s crossing the line. Think about it, how would you feel if someone judges you for your fashion sense and other things? Have you ever put yourselves in someone else’s shoes? If you do, good. If you don’t that’s not their problem it’s YOUR PROBLEM! The reason why I’m more open to talking about this and saying that judging was wrong was because my favourite influencer is not afraid to express herself when she gets judged. She was slut shamed by many haters and she inspired me to not live to please people but myself even though I didn’t wear skimpy clothing like she does but I had respect for her.

When I saw some men who had very long beards, I admitted I didn’t like it. But I didn’t judge and I had this thinking that they deserved to have a choice we had no rights to change their mindsets. And my favourite influencer said not judging makes you a better person which is true. Stop wasting your time on others whom you don’t know that well but focus on making yourselves a better person. If you chose to leave hate comments here or start an argument you are considered a hater and as she said ‘haters don’t really matter and they deserved to fuck off’. I will not start an argument because it’s worthless to change people’s minds I can just simply delete them as that’s the easiest way out. She has changed me in a good way and I’m proud of myself. I demanded a judgmental free society for both men and women but it’s not happening! I’m not blind I know what I’m doing don’t assume I’m just a stupid fan.