Search Results: first date help

What am I going to tell my kids? HELP!!! What do I do? I NEED help? I am so lost?

I was dating someone who was no good. I ended up dating my best friend. We dated for 1 year and I fell in love with him. My best friend proposed after we were dating for 1 year 19 months and 3 days. I said yes and we...

Hoper-101

Xper 4 Age: 43

Guy's Behavior

Is he playing me on SnapChat?

There’s a kid (15) who I snapped for 2 days. We talked & he seemed cool/nice. I met him over snap. One of the first things he asked me was how old I am/what I look like. Last night, he snapped me & asked if I was alone &...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My ex dumped me years ago... why am I still heartbroken?

I'm so sorry I feel like I have no one to talk to. Even though I wake up smiling and go about my day, I still feel empty inside. I miss waking up next to him. He motivated me to become a better girl/woman(we grew up...

Anonymous

(18-24)

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Who do I get my boss to stop talking to me about her son (my ex)?

I didn't go into this new job knowing my boss was going to be my ex's mum it was a very big shock to me and she doesn't know I was with her son. He was my first boyfriend and I was his first girlfriend. We were both...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can you help me make this make sense?

So yes (don’t need negativity, I’m grown, he’s grown and did not want a relationship at first ) I am in a booty call situation. March first made it a year. He text me and said we need a dinner and movie date a couple days...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How should I proceed if he’s not texting?

So there’s a guy that I met a year or so ago through mutual friends at the time he was in a relationship and recently one of our friends reached out saying they thought we would have fun together as more than friends and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does my friends with benefits have feelings for me or love me?

I know this is a bad thing to do, but I can’t help who I love. I’ve been in a 1 year and a half friends with benefits relationship with my first love (my ex from 12 years ago). I lost my virginity to him when we dated and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Great chemistry, "friend zoned"?

M/F 29yo. Been talking to this lady for about 2 weeks now, and we've gone out twice and did something casual like coffee and chatting. It was very obvious that we had really good chemistry since our first texts and...

NoDiggityForMe

Xper 4 Age: 34

How Do I Look?

Am I being called ugly?

I’m a brunette, and my first boyfriend told me that until he dated me he thought he had a type (even though before me he dated another brunette.) This guy I just hooked up with for a few weeks told me that he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Please help. Is my boyfriend’s behaviour normal?

This is long but I don’t want to miss anything important. I was in an abusive relationship previously with a man with quite serious mental health issues. There wasn’t any physical abuse. It was all mental but it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he trying to get his foot in the door again?

Today I met up with my abusive ex/son’s father for the first time in two months since our break up. I left him because of the abuse, wanting to protect my child and he was cheating with an ex. I met up with him to get...

halloweenkween

Xper 5 Age: 28

Obsessed with my childhood nemesis/crush?

Hi! I am almost 28 and have never been kissed/in relationship. I was only once in a date. I am not ugly but I was always very career driven. A lot of people keep adding me on social media and I keep ignoring their...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Do you think my supervisor should've been more protective with his daughter?

His daughter just turned 21 not so long ago. Ever since she turned 18, he treated her like an adult because that's what she wanted. She has moved out after her 19th b-day and apparently dated lots of guys. She wants...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend slept with someone else but he said I told him to, should I be upset?

Yes it's true, 2 weeks ago I told him ''maybe it's better if we just have a casual, open relationship'' but it was during an argument. I was sick of tired of him giving me ultimatums and then saying that if I make...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, If a guy used steroids to change his life, would you accept it?

This is kind of a long post, but I think it's important to tell my story. I was always very skinny and one of the smaller kids when I was growing up. It was bad because it led to a lot of bullying and teasing about my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Can I even become friends with this guy again without things being weird? Or should I actively avoid him and just stop going out again?

Back story: In high school, I was severely awkward. The school pretty boy weirdly befriended me and would pay for my ticket to go out roller skating every weekend with him and burn me mix tapes. He dated girls and played...

Anonymous

(30-35)