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I'm not saying my boyfriend is racist or anything. He's a white guy, Scottish and I'm a black girl Scottish as well. We went to school together and now we are dating. We have been dating for 2months now and he's met my mum and baby brother for a small bit. I notice little signs such as sometimes when we walk in the street a small amount of people just stare mostly old or black people for no reason. It's so annoying. Also he does this thing which is beginning to annoy me. For example when we were walking out the mall he saw his ex from 5years ago, who we both went to school with and he had his arm around me and he said 'oh look there's cat' and his arm all of a sudden dropped from my waist and he put his hands in his pockets. its not as though she was popular or anything I find a threat. Then after 30secs he wrapped his hands around me. Also we were walking in town one day and we were very close and touching and stuff and then he just moved away and I was like 'why are you walking that far' and he said 'oh I just saw my cousin. I was like oh okay. I have not met his parents but he always tells me 'oh they'd like you' and stuff plus he hasn't even told them he has a girlfriend who is black😂 or a girlfriend at all. Also I know most grandparents are racist and both his are alive so... but he's never said anything about anyone being racist. Is he ashamed of me. Whenever he suggests anything that involves his parents eg we came out the cinema at 1am and taxis were talking a long time and he said he'd get his dad to pick us up and I said no. I always say I don't want to meet his parents but I feel as though he just doesn't want me to ever meet them. Does he not want to be seen with me. Even though he's always kissing/cuddling on the streets where everyone can see. What should I do? Also on most of my social media it shows that I'm in a relationship with him and I always include him on my snapchat stories and he always want to be on them but NEVER has he never put me on any of his social media or snapchats or anything. He's a nice guy and I know he wouldn't cheat on me cause I'm out of his league looks wise. Not meaning to be stuck up or big headed. Any advise?

I always hear that if a guy talks about things the two of you will be doing but in a future tense that it means he must truly care about you. But it's not like it's a promise or anything, just talk. So does it usually mean something? Here's my example, my ears are very ticklish and he likes to whisper in them because it makes me kind of freak out because of how ticklish I am. He randomly asked me one day "How do you think you are going to react when you aren't as sensitive to me doing that anymore?". It kind of caught me off guard because it will probably be a long time before that happens if it ever does. That and we are pretty light and aren't necessarily exclusive although we also don't really put effort into finding other people. I'm just curious if guys intentionally talk about future things like that because it has meaning or if it's just simply conversation. Thanks.