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Im aware that question may have come across a bit childish but I feel insecure in my looks. I was a chubby child and was into my first year of college. I didn’t get asked out until I was around 16. And the guys that showed “interest” were not my type. Who seemed interested in me was not what I was looking for physically. I have lost eighty pounds since and am moderately thick. I have curly hair, pale skin, slim stomach and thick (big) legs. While I went down a few dress sizes, I have thick thighs as I previously mentioned and could afford to tone up. However, I don’t get much attention from men. And when I do, they’re not my type. On dating apps is where I get attention from guys, at least the ones I find attractive. And when they do message me, it seems brief and shallow. Compared to the friends I’ve known that seem to have suitors, I feel I don’t measure up. People say I’m attractive and these friends of mine that get attention are somewhat average. I don’t know who’s lying. Even with my weight loss I feel invisible. People tell me that men look at me and I do not notice any attention. Others have said that guys complimented my looks behind my back and I feel they’re lying because these same guys in person did not convey their interest.

(Were in college btw) I have a really good guy friend that I’ve only know for about a month but I feel like we have gotten pretty close in that time. We love to cuddle, we don’t do it much around other people but I spend the night with him a lot. There’s nothing sexual about it at all and he has never even tried anything. We just enjoy being close to each other, but while we’re sleeping he’ll do the skin trace thing in my back, play with my hair and kiss the top of my head (I don’t thinks he knows that I notice him do that tho) and I can’t help but wonder if there might be feelings there?