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So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months, and I really do like him, but there's a good amount of little things that bother me. I don't like people for their looks so it's not about that. He dances a lot and it kinda embarrasses me, and he likes it so I don't say anything to hurt his feelings. He also talks nonstop about stuff I don't care about and then says "oh nobody gets my reference", and usually we all get the reference. He also makes music that's a mix of ghetto and dubstep, don't like it. I don't say anything because that's part of who he is as a person, and I don't want to hurt his feelings. My dad hates him, but not because of his personality, but because he's black. He's from Detroit and lives here in Alabama, we go to school together. We're in high school. We've dated a couple times before, the first time was in May of 2014. He's been hinting at sex (I'm a virgin, he's had sex once years ago), and it's kinda scary to me. I've said no, but now I'm considering having sex with him. He recently sent me 2 dick pics, and he's really big (length and width), which kinda scares me. He's also really hairy, and I hate that. If he was stubbly then I'd be fine. Again, I don't want to say anything, cause it's kinda rude and embarrassing. I asked him if he wanted anything in return and he said, "sure why not" which made me feel bad. So I asked what he wanted and said anything so I sent a picture of my boobs and he said "majestic" mfw. I don't know why, but after he sent the picture, I got ridiculously sad and started crying. I don't know. I'm sorry for this long paragraph, but it's necessary.

I just hate bras.
I am 14 and I made the decision to stop wearing bras altogether forever.
My boobs are 32b so not too big and not too small.
Do you think they will start to sag?
I'm actually really worried because BRAS ANNOY me.
But I don't want saggy boobs.

Am I young enough that I still have time for my boobs to develop the tissue that they need to not sag?
Or should I wear a bra?

My guy friend and I have a stormy relationship. We both are defensive and know how to push each other's buttons. We fight intensely because we are both so stubborn and think we're right but we always make up. The littlest thing I say to him makes him fly off the handle and threaten to not talk to me anymore or to quit all the clubs we do together. Last time I tried to talk to him after he said he couldn't deal with me anymore and he said there was nothing to talk about. That really hurt me because I felt he didn't care about me anymore. Then I sent him this long text saying how I understand his stressful life and I just want to see him more.
We fight mostly because he has so many commitments that I barely see him and he cancels on our school activities sometimes because he has other obligations.

I know we have deep feelings for each other or we'd give up on the relationship. He says he likes to fight with me because it gives him a warm feeling inside. I feel that too, but for me it's passion. Does he mean the same thing? I know when he makes me so mad I either want to choke him or kiss him, or both!

We hug usually twice a day at school. When he hugs other guys and girls, he hugs the guys enthusiastically but the girls in a brotherly way. He and I always hug pressed up against each other's chests, tightly and for at least 5-10 seconds. They seem to go on forever and we usually end up off balance and kind of dancing/wobbling around like drunks. Or he'll hug me aggressively and I have to brace myself to not fall backward. He also rubs his cheek on mine and one day he was tired so I held him and he nuzzled his head on my chest (I have big boobs) while I rubbed his back. He's asked to use my chest as a pillow before.

He's said he loves me and hates me at times, so maybe he's confused? We've said we love each other as friends but I know I'm attracted to him as more. Is it possible that he has feelings for me too? Other guys don't hug me like that.