Why do guys like instagram whores?

[Anonymous]

So it's been over 2 months now I have been with this guy and I notice he has liked photos of playboy models (I am okay with that, I know they're just playboy models) however one of the chicks he likes her name is Morgan Hultgren. I don't hate her but the only pictures she takes are of her ass, boobs and hardly next to nothing clothing on herself. I am bugged by it because I noticed on his camera roll by accident (I looked over while he had it open) and saw her boobs and ass on it. I don't know if I should worry since he has been cheated on and has a long history with cheating, I just I feel insecure by it and why do guys like that? Why do they like pictures of those type of females while they have someone that doesn't look 100% plastic. It bugs me because she is pretty, very gorgeous but again she's also almost plastic so I don't know it makes me feel like I am not enough for him at times when he does this, and no I haven't spoken about it because I am nervous too. Am I overthinking this?

[Bandit74]

Those girls are just materbation material. Even if he had the chance to actually date that girl in real life he'd probably only want a fling with her. Those girls aren't always the most trustworthy or respectable and their personalies might not always match their outer beauty. Many guys don't see those girls as relationship material and the guys that do end up marrying those models usually end up cheating on them or leaving them for someone younger/hotter. If you're bored just Google some models and see how many models or celebrities have marraiges that last over 10 years. Doesn't matter how hot a girl is, that's no garuntee that a guy will stay with them.

Anyways, most guys like having their girlfriend for their eyes only so the fact that your beauty is just for him makes it more special than the girls who put their body on display for the entire world to enjoy. So really you've got nothing to worry or be insecure about. When he's looking at those girls its not because he feels anything for them, he just sees them as sex objects to get him off. I guess if it really bothers you I guess you could casually bring it up to him :/

[CautiousKitten]

I wouldn't be too worried if I were you. Looking at p*rn etc isn't exactly unusual for a male, hell.. for both genders.
If you really dislike it, you could have a talk, but unless it's more than just pictures, I just think it'd make things worse, as he may become more secretive about it, making you even more worried about what's really going on..
To me, I don't mind looking at those women, because it's pretty much like another world. It's something you don't usually see, and I find it hot. But when it comes down to who I'd like to be with, I'd rather go with an actual woman than a doll, something it seems like your boyfriend would agree with since he's with you and not some Barbie.

I've noticed that a lot of women react like this when their boyfriend watch p*rn , other girls, etc. But as long as it's nothing more than looking, I for one don't see a problem with it.
Just remember that he chose to be with you.

[Asker]

Yeah I just need to keep reminding myself. I too have had a history of guys cheating and stuff and it really broke me down a little with my confidence level so the guy I am with it's different because he's in a way showing me what a "normal" relationship is about and I just don't want to feel like this or have him look at me like I constantly need help because I don't know what a "normal" relationship looks like until now. It also scares me my relationship because he's very straight up, very honest and I just am not use to this at all.

[Nochielo]

You are overthinking it. You see there is an "emotional" separation between the women we have relationships with and the random ladies we think are hot. You could talk to him about it if you want, but I wouldn't think too much of it.

[clampfan101]

I don't think you're overthinking it.
(Not all guys like that stuff, by the way.)