Why do boyfriends follow bikini and booty girls on instagram?

[Anonymous]

I feel so disrespected when he follows these girls and likes their pictures. I don't know, maybe i’m just really insecure, maybe i’m scared he wants to be with them than with me, maybe he likes what he sees better than what i offer him? I don't know i’m driving myself crazy.

[Apple1996]

Some guys just do that. It's not a huge deal since it's kind of porn for them but I am thankful that my husband stays away from social media cuz I'd be feeling real insecure if he was constantly looking at insta booty

[scooogy]

Who would actually look at other booties if he could have yours up close? 😍

[Asker]

i guess he’s not happy with mine

[Anonymous]

All porn is fantasy. So yes, he fantasizes about what it would be like being with those models. He likes you, maybe even loves you, sure, but he wishes you, really any woman he is with really, would look like his ideal.

[20yearsolder]

It's pretty simple, we like looking at tits and ass. What does it matter where we get our appetite as long as we eat at home

[Bmories99]

Have you talked to him about it. Does he know how you feel? That would be the first step in addressing the situation.

[Asker]

yes and he says it’s because he wants to

[Bmories99]

Okay and you told him how you feel about it. If his answer stays the same then you have a red flag that he is going to disrespect you no matter how you feel. Then my question is where is the line drawn. Keep trying I am rooting for you and that he sees how this could and possible already is hurting you.

[Guy13]

Because we are visual and that’s not quite Porn.

[Asker]

can that mean that he’s not happy with me?

[Guy13]

It means he needs lots of visual stimulation. I have no way of knowing his level of satisfaction with you. What does your gut tell you?

[FilmGuy93]

Just because something is aesthetically pleasing doesn't mean that he isn't happy with what he's got.

[Straight2thepoint]

Both sex will look for what their relationship partner is lacking. Either ur insecurities becomes their likings. Or become the boredom and yesterday's news.

This goes for everyone.

[Bang5luts]

You do need to calm yourself a little than talk with him and ask him why he does it. Would he be ok with you checking out other guys?

[Asker]

i have talked to him about it. he doesn’t give an honest answer. he says he wouldn’t care bc it’s just an app and he knows i wouldn’t do anything with anyone

[Bang5luts]

Than he's being dismissive of your feelings and acting like he knows you wouldn't do anything. Anything might have negative results.

[d3n0939]

Even girls trying to play you get jealous when you watch a pic of a girl. So, this is very normal behavior of a girl

[VikingWarLord]

Well is it true that they are hotter than you.

Are you overweight or don't look your best?

[CountryWanderer]

I think it's not very respectful of him, if you're committed to each other

[qwert1234]

Because they are nice to look at.

On the other hand, why are you insecure?

[Anonymous]

For the same reason you likely have a 50 shades novel or two. Or have watched or own the notebook or other chick flicks.

You have your fantasies and he has his.

Men are visual and women are mental.

[Midgetmcwidget]

We are also crazy as well as mental 🤫😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Fromdusktilldawn]

You ARE being insecure about it.

Every guy has hormones that make them be attracted to hot girls but love is something different

[Anonymous]

Because we are more visual than our female counterparts. It isn't a big deal, it doesn't mean that we want to find these girls and run away with them. We just like to look. Date a women if you can't handle that because this applies to most men.

[Beardedman1996]

Think of it as soft core porn without watching porn, something a little extra with out going all the way

[TonyMetal___86]

I do not follow such girls and that's if i have an insta account which i don't!

[Islomkarimov]

That’s a Big red flag to me