Gentlemen, why do guys in relationships follow bikini girls on instagram?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Because men have this thing about looking at women. I don’t know if that’s nature or what. Some would say it is. I don’t follow models online but I certainly see a lot of women in public, on tv as well that I’d like to get w. Yes I’m w someone, for the last 15 years. Raised a family, work, take care of my family to where she doesn’t have to work. I think I’m one of the more down to earth men. But yes I still look at other women. It has nothing to do w having feelings for them. It’s a visual. I don’t know how to compare that to something women can relate to. I don’t know maybe asking a girl to pick one type of clothing or bag or even a pair of shoes she will wear or carry the rest of her life then telling her she can never go window shopping or look online at other clothes or bags. Maybe a bad analogy I know women aren’t objects, those things are. Unless you’re a man you’ll never full understand it. A majority of men will always look at other women. Even the ones who tell their girl they don’t. It’s possible, but I think it’s more so to avoid confrontation. Most men don’t like confrontation. Not in a sense that not liking it means we’re scared, most of us would rather just avoid it.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Ask the guy in question, for a precise answer, I'm not in his head. Sorry

[DrPepper12]

Cuz their hot? 🥵🔥🤔

Seriously it's harmless voyeurism. That's all! If their msging that's different. Why are women so insecure?

[LiamJHayden]

Most guys are trained by entertainment and advertising to look at women as though they are objects. Until they see women as unique individuals, the tendency you point out is likely to continue.

[Danny_dan92]

Why do girls follow guys that are handsome and are fit?

[OddBeMe]

Window shopping. If you ask us not to and we don’t, then that’s an issue. But why does it bother you?

[Wise4myage]

Men like to look at eye candy, and the internet is full of women who like to show off their bodies.

[BLP11520]

Hormones, bikini pictures and bra and panty pics just get to us

[dragoblack]

Same reason women "window shop"

[scott04sa22]

I don't

[Anonymous]

Why not.

[Asker]

i was just asking why? i feel like it’s disrespectful in a way. like why if you have a girlfriend. why choose to make her more insecure then she already is

[Opinion Owner]

Because they can. The better question is why does a woman in a relationship tolerate it.

[Asker]

everyone will be single if that’s the case

[Opinion Owner]

That's nonsense. There are plenty of guys who don't cheat. Women just don't choose those men.😆

[Asker]

so following women who show off their bodies on social media is cheating?

[Opinion Owner]

Well, it's not physical cheating. But why would a guy do that if his partner didn't like it? I mean I'll admit I AM making assumptions here. But I ASSUME you wouldn't ask this question of it didn't bother you. If it bothers you then all is not well in Paradise.