Guys who are in a relationships: why do you follow bikini models on social media?

[Anonymous]

Hey everyone, my boyfriend follows a bunch of girls on instagram and I want to know the real reason why. At first he said because he wanted to. Two years later he says it’s because he wants to get me mad. Every time we argue he follows new people and he says he does it because he knows i’ll be upset about it. The past two months he has been ignoring me a lot lately and when I ask him why he says because he knows the only reason I call is it bitch about something.

[Saiesh30]

Regarding the bikini models thing, I think it's only natural for men to be inclined to such models. You know how gorgeous and not to forget 'edited' those pics are. It's bound to get attracted towards them. It's more like having a celebrity crush you know. Nothing more than that.
But regarding him avoiding your calls and everything that's a separate issue altogether. I'm sorry to say but he's not finding it worth to spend time with you. Now only you two, yourselves know the truth better that who's right and who's wrong. But he's not going along well with you fs. If you feel like you're only or mostly talking about a third person then change that habit. Instead talk about his interests and stuff.

[Asker]

i tried my hardest to have a good time around him yesterday but he started the arguments this time. i guess he is so used to us fighting all the time that he automatically did it.

[Saiesh30]

Yeah that seems like a fair explanation. Good thing you tried 👏🏻
Keep trying and it should eventually get better. But try not to lose your calm.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I don't. I never really saw the point of it. I guess it is a type of fandom but I never understood it. I also don't use social media unless YouTube counts (and I only watch videos on there and sometimes write a comment).

[Asker]

would you ignore your girlfriends calls if all she did was bitch and complain?

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I might be tempted a little bit. 😅 I hope I don't though. That seems immature. I would prefer we talk things out very openly and try to figure out how to work things out together.

[Asker]

my boyfriend just ignores me almost all day. I would try to call him and he ignores me calls. When I had asked him why he does it, he says it’s because all I do is bitch and complain.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

He might feel as though you are trying to change him into something he doesn't want to be, although it seems like he is being very stubborn and unreasonable too.

[Asker]

he says my constant arguing and complaining is exhausting and he doesn’t want to put up with it anymore.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

That's a tough one. If you want to preserve the relationship, it might to try a light-hearted tone at least initially to find your way back to his good side.

[soe11]

It is a normal stuff, so no need to worry about it, as long as your relationship is stronger.

[war_daddy]

sounds like you're annoying as fuck lol

[Asker]

yeah i am very insecure

[CountryWanderer]

I don't

[riverrat3]

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