The only instance where intelligence and being black man doesn't hurt your relationships with people is if you are jacked like a linebacker.
Example taken from a male gager:
"I don't know man this fits me 10010000% I'm a black guy who's is an introvert and a deep thinker. I do t steal, do drugs, never had a criminal record, I respect woman, I hate sleeping around. And so on. But no one bats an eye to me, no one wants to talk to me until they want something, they hate how I am not them and say I'm lame for not knowing stupid stuff on tv and movies. It don't bother me much but really love this topic. Maybe they don't wanna feel left out when comes to being alone."
Another real life example called from another black guy:
This guy is an educated , does not speak ghetto, speaks clearly and sounds intelligent; I would actually consider him having a career in voice acting. Now even though this guy is intelligent, graduated from respected college, does not sell drugs and dresses sharp he has a hard time getting women to like him. 1 year ago he actually made a video discussing his difficulty in online dating and this guy is not socially awkward or has some kind of hangups when talking to girls. It just seems if you don't play into a stereotype people just can' relate to you.
On the flip side, we have another black male who is of the same height and looks, who originally grew up in the ghetto and moved to the suburbs.
He follows classic media portrayal for black men. Not only does this guy have a girlfriend (seen above) but he's had sex with many girls some of whom were fine ass chicks from upper high middle class families.
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