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This is what I want in a long term relationship with a woman:

- financially independent but can work with me synergistically.
- exercises and diets well on most days.
- attractive enough that I want to have sex with her on regular basis.
- open minded to debate, but fights fair. Can be opinionated but not judgmental to point she cares more about being right vs. what IS right.
- no serious addictions. I've had a few minor issues with this, but it doesn’t control my life. So I will give her leeway for some sins. But I dated an alcoholic one time and I will never do it again.

In my entire life I have only dated one girl who fit all of these. But tragically we met me at the wrong time in my life and I ended up screwing it up. I owned up to that when we broke up.

However over 95 percent of the women I’ve met before and after her date me for the following shitty reasons:

- financial support
- briefly date and then friendzone. They try to keep me as orbiter for their own conceited bullshit reasons
- they are broken and looking for a “savior”.

I just feel that as a man I’m at an inherent disadvantage because women have more room to be choosy thanks to differences in sex drives.

As a man am I really expected to “settle”. I know a bunch of girls will say “oh follow your heart”. But they are 100% clueless on what dating is like for guys.

I prefer it, but I hate it at the same time.

Its better because obviously women prefer to work and make sure they can look after themselves.

But, I can only go into a long term relationship feeling like my girlfriend/wife is ‘mine.’

Nowadays the whole notion is that women live their own separate life.

A good question for our days and even more for the future and far future is:
Why humanity still need male gender?
We now have machinery to do things, pretty soon we'll have also the AI.
The women in our days and even more in the future are independent and will be even more independent.
It is pretty clear that women, that really don't need too much sex, will keep the man around just for nothing.
In the future the men will exist just for themselves, a far different situation than what was until now.
If somehow in the future the reproduction will be done with artificial sperm (some successful experiments already happened ), the men will be completely out from the scene.
How do you see the future of the masculine gender in this context?
Should we expect to men to disappear? Will men become a myth of the past? Will anybody cry after that, or will be just a pain free unavoidable natural transition on the human path?
Is that something monstrous or natural and expected?

Women talk like they want nice guys but we've all see how nice guys end up nowhere but the friend zone. Women talk about how they want to be empowered and respected, but the sales of 50 shades of grey don't lie.

Are women hypocritical when it comes to what they want. Because there is a public image - I'm strong, independent etc, and then there is a more base emotion.

It used to be a man’s world right? Things have change d a lot!!!

In todays world everything is run by women. Getting a job is easier as a woman, you’re encouraged to value education more when your younger. So many people tell you to be independent and what not! Most careers encourage/take on more women due to the Imbalance. These days in America women own more wealth then men, as a percentage. Okay they’re more women in the world, but either way you earn the same as men.

Dating, finding a partner is so much easier. You can be average looking and how so many options on dating apps. It’s ridiculous! Insane!

You up can express yourself and not have your femininity questioned. You have more friends, you have more support, you’re closer to your children.

Being a man is a shit and lonely place to be!