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"I'll be candid with you; I feel like the quality of women has dropped dramatically over the past decade.

I always get flamed for saying this, but who cares:
-I am 25
-I have my Bachelors
-I have a great job
-I have my own car
-I have my own place
-I dress nice and work out often
-I am confident, goal oriented and know what I want out of life
-I don't party too much, I barely drink and I don't smoke

I feel that I am quality man, and I want to meet a quality woman. However... it's funny... at my age, here's the type of women I see often:

-Women who hang out with less than reputable men and constantly complain that all men are bad
-Women with princess personalities
-Women who party a lot
-Women who already have 2+ kids by age 23
-Women who continuously waste a guy's time, especially when his feelings are genuine.

I am talking about women ages 18-28 by the way.

Here's the kicker - 2 days ago, I overheard this college girl talking to her friend. She was talking about how this PhD student has a huge crush on her, is such a nice guy and comes over every night to brush her hair. She said that she will never in her life have sex with him, because he is a nice guy. She said that maybe when she is 25, she will go for guys like him... but for now she likes having sex with men "who aren't shit".

This is how women behave these days, and it's sickening."

From reading this it seems many women make a conscious decision to mess with one type of men in their youth then go for another type of guy later on. It's not about maturing.

When a gager post a question saying he doesn't find women over 25 year old attraction. People respond by bashing him and posting up celebrities over 25 as evident that women are beautiful pass 25 but people don't factor in that's professional makeup, they have less stressful lives, and are in top 10% of wealth and can afford good food,, trainers. Your average 25 year old woman is not going to look like that.

Everyone always says.. we should date or says we would make a couple. I spend a lot of time explaining to people she's not my girlfriend.. just a close friend. I have know her for a year and we actually become friends after i ask her out. She never said why she wouldn't date me just said she wasn't looking to date at the time.. maybe a iie. but 2 months later she ended up dating a guy she had a crush on for along while.. which didn't work out. We have been hanging out almost 2-3 Times a week lately even through she's 35 min away from me ny car and 1 hour by train. 3 days ago we were oit with a few friends and she brought up the fact o asked her out. everyone got excited and said why dont you two date? her reply was i would but my parents wouldn't ever approve. Her parents are kind of raicest.. but in the way they feel... like becuase your black or Spanish your gonna act or speak a certain Type of way. I don't know if she was lying becuase her ex boyfriend aka her first was black but she didn't tell her parents they were dating... in fact its a long story but her family hate the guy. Anyway am only asking because i accpeted the way awhile ago were just friend but 4 days ago we just sit in the back of her car cuddleoing.. listening to cold play. I really like being her friend.. but movements like that.. make me ask why does everyone think we would be such a cute couple together? Or wht would dating her feel like? i have no plans on asking her out.