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It's not me but it's my aunt's story long ago:
- She had a boyfriend and both were then 19 year-olds. The guy left on a train and promised to return on the same place. In tears, she promised she'll wait for him on the same train station.

She waited and he came back 11 years later. To her shock, he had aged badly (a lot worse than her), was fat, had undergone a horrible divorce (his wife cheated and left him for his best friend), lost his job and was a mess with old clothes. He claimed to always loved her and asked if she would settle down with him. She rejected him and said ''You're not my love I waited for. I waited for a brave, healthy and honest man not a desperate, wrinkled fool that only wants me as last option. I'm sorry but you're not the man I've waited for. You're someone I don't recognize. I'll now move on and seek my real man. Good bye''.

Needless to say she got married to someone else (my political uncle) the following year. Would you say her rejection towards her previous boyfriend was right?

So im 15, I was at a table with my boyfriend and his male friend, His friend is a hunk, I literally get so aroused looking at his friend in a tanktop or when they are hanging out shirtless around the house he is a hottie, I sometimes Fantasize what sleeping with him , But i would NEVER cheat on my boyfriend with his friend, if his friend made a move on me i would slap him, But i would still lust for him deep down, does this make me a hoe? to have thoughts but to never act on it?