My boyfriend doesn’t want to marry me?

[Rozz6654e]

I’m in a two years rs, I love him soooo much I would do anything for him, before we started dating I used to talk to his friend and few days later I noticed that they go everywhere together and that they’re close so I suddenly deleted his friend. Few months later I got into this two years rs with my boyfriend he kept asking me about my past and I tried my best to show him that I’m the best cuz he never told me anything about his past. One day he came to me so angry and said until when will you keep hiding , you were playing on me u used to talk to me and my friend ! But I lovee himmmm I felt really upset that he thinks this way of me. by the way again i do everything for him I’ve never loved anyone as much as I love him I don't know. He wanted to see my Snapchat who I have, I got so scared I had nothing to hide but I had guys that I don’t talk to but I told my boyfriend before that I don’t have any guy expect him. From that day i lost the trust he gave me, he wanted to break up but I kept begging him and promised to be very honest ! The problem is he found out that his guy friends were my friends too and that hurt him. He is very honest with me he told me that he doesn’t want me for the future I don’t think he wants to marry me HELP PLEASE I LOVE HIM SO MUCH I don't know WHAT TO DO OR HOW TO GAIN HIS TRUST BACK. We’re still together but he keeps reminding me that I’m a liar and he doesn’t want a wife that lies he’s afraid that I’ll cheat on him after marriage BUT I won't EVER CHEAT ON HIM I LOVE HIM TO DEATH he's ALL I SEE HOW CAN I EXPRESS ALL THIS

[Rob70]

If you did nothing wrong and only talked to his friend. He needs to chill out and realize that you can have guy friends and talk to guys that you are not sexual with. You need to look deep into yourself and decide if you really want to spend the rest of your life with a man who wants to control you. If you were to get married is he going to be mad every time you speak to another guy. What about people you may work with? Is he going to be mad and put you down for talking to a guy you work with. He sounds controlling to me.

[Anonymous]

First, he needs to get his jealousy under control, possibly therapy. Unless you are a Muslim and in Muslim country, but then you would not be able to live together at all before marriage...

That is, if you only talked (no bedroom fun) and got rid of any men who trying to get you, while you are with him.

My advice is do get rid of him as it will only get worse and he possibly can see how to manipulate you, with time you will be doing a lot of stuff you do not want to.

[DarkWinterNights]

It kind-of sounds like he’s overreacting, but the context could be a bit off. If he’s not typically the jealous type and you have an overall very good and NON-TOXIC relationship, the only solid advice I can give you is sit down and talk about it. Be completely open, and find out what his concerns are and what’s bothering him. It sounds like he could have some trust issues. Just don’t bend over backwards and hurt yourself just to get him to stay.

[cmarrott]

I dated a girl for 5 years honestly thought I just didn't want to get married. We broke up. Within a year I was married. Didn't know it at the time but the first girl wasn't right for me. If he doesn't want to marry you you aren't right for him. He may not even know it yet.

[iBeowulf]

Women file 80-90% of divorces. Don't be her golden parachute. 🦒🍆🇺🇸🎲

[KrakenAttackin]

He is a wise man and he should never get married. Also, he needs to be careful as your next action will be to "accidentally" get pregnant.

[Anonymous]

you should leave because he is just not that into you

[Anonymous]

Divorce him! But you won't get the alimony coz you're not legally married.

[Avicenna]

He may change his mind

[Tstrbrainer]

Actually you should leave him.

[In_Trance]

Tldr