My boyfriend loves me, but doesn’t want to get married?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 years, he’s 30
and I’m 24. He tells me all the time that I’m the love of his life, and plans on spending the rest of his life with me. Every time we talk about marriage, his response is basically what’s the point in getting married if I already act like his wife. Since we live together, I cook, clean for him, and split bills with him. He’s mentioning having children in the near future, but I refuse to unless we’re married since I like the concept of marriage.

Would it be wrong to give him an ultimatum to marry me or I’m leaving?

[GloriaMc]

Probably your boyfriend is not ready for commitments cause to be legally partners when you broke up for example everything will be divided fighting custodies and everything is a Hussle process they say that's the only reason I could be wrong but two of should clarify things up I know you two already talking about certain things but consider the saying men won't tell the whole story for some but you we can't generalized everything.

[MzAsh]

He has a point.

Don’t be a wife to a boyfriend.

I know what I’d do, I’d cut him off. Tell him the things you do are what wives do. It’s not an ultimatum, it’s a choice.

[arun934]

The reason varies from guy to guy. Better you take him for a date and can ask him directly.

[Karl1982]

Do it... If you will actually stick to it. But, don't back out if he doesn't give in.

[PartRaptor]

He is a smart man to not get married. Can’t trust women to not leave you for someone better and leave you with nothing

[MzAsh]

If his value was high enough, he wouldn’t have to worry about that.

[PartRaptor]

@MzAsh women are hypergamous they will always look for more that is just in your nature that is why a man should never marry

[MzAsh]

If a man never marries then he should never have a live in girlfriend who behaves as a wife.

[PartRaptor]

@MzAsh just cause You follow old fashion values does not mean everyone else has to. Quit forcing your beliefs on others

[MzAsh]

Not forcing. I give advice when called for. It’s up to the reader whether or not they want to take the advice.

[pigoat]

Give him the ultimatum

[Anonymous]

Move out until you get a married, not just engaged