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I have a friend who's a stud. He gets so much female attention, it's unreal. Anyways, he makes a conscious effort not to flirt or talk to girls. He doesn't even give the girl he likes any attention. He maintains professionalism thoughout any conversations he has with girls.

Now my question is, does the fact that he doesn't talk to girls boost his attractiveness? Or is it the opposite, and the only reason they're giving him so much attention is because he's hot?

The German woman is well-dressed, educated, and extremely aggressive in pursuing career goals, oftentimes outpacing her male counterparts by wide margins (with the help of radical affirmative action policies, of course). Neofeminism has taken a firm hold of Germany, and the attitudes of the female population reflect this “emancipation.”

Despite varying degrees of physical attractiveness depending on region, the typical German woman is bland and boring, completely lacking originality and flavor. Do not expect to laugh with a German girl or enjoy a home cooked meal. German women tend to look, act, and dress the exact same; if you’ve met one, chances are, you’ve met them all.

From my experience here, there are two types of women in Germany: club rats and office ghosts.

The club rats are typically young students (18-25) and spend at least three days per week snorting amphetamines and taking home random Turks or Africans from clubs. Being an articulate, well-educated Westerner is not an advantage at all, even if you can speak the language fluently; neofeminism has convinced them they must prove they are not Nazis (a subconscious result of German post-war guilt) by sleeping with 10 off-the-boat immigrants per weekend. It’s important to note, however, that being an American doesn’t put you into this category.

Office ghosts tend to be attractive, young professionals with tolerable personalities, yet are extremely difficult to find in a social setting outside of work. You'll find a lot of them a Rewe grocery store (one of the more expensive stores, often frequented by young professionals) or book store. Keep in mind, this group still possesses a cold, skeptical, and distant personality when approached by a stranger, so keep your expectations low.

so everyone knows about the 1-10 attractiveness scale but everyone has their own preferences and its not very accurate. But if it was like poll where you either find them attractive or not. so either a yes or no. that way it would it would tally up and give you a percentage at the end. so say 70% voted yes you are attractive then that means you are a 7/10 on the attractiveness scale. this way its more accurate over a sample population rather than everyone saying oh she is a 10 and then someone saying no 6/10 because the varying options make it less accurate to determine when simply a yea or no will do. opinions?

Does anyone here honestly really care that much about what's in a person's online dating profile? I'm not saying personality isn't important, it is, but if you find the person attractive aren't you at least going to send/respond to their message? And if they send you a dumb/lame/creepy message aren't you going to ignore them even if you find them physically attractive?

I found a study online where one group of people were asked to rate physical attractiveness, and another group was ask to rate personality of online dating profiles, including blank profiles, and even empty profile's personality rates correlated strongly with the ratings from the physical attractiveness.

When you approach someone in person you don't interrogate them for a bunch of personal details. You have a short conversation and if they're a normal person you ask them out for a date and go from there. Is it really necessary to put a bunch of details in your online profile?