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Search Results: is my confidence hurting me
Does this sound like an eating disorder?
Okay, so I have extreme confidence issues but I tend to fake it. But whenever I see other guys that girls call hot... I look at them and see what they have that I don't. I felt my weight was a good place to start....
theoverlookeddude
Xper 5 Age: 30 What's the difference between a man who's afraid to love and doesn't want to hurt you, and a man who just isn't interested in you?
I'll get mixed signals from him where he'll treat me like a girlfriend and be cute and cuddle and kiss me and hold my hand and makes sure i'm okay when i'm sick but then he'll say things like I don't want to hurt you...
RED2828
Xper 5 Age: 29 How to deal with a negative friend?
I'm in a band with this friend and I'm the singer. She sort of does keyboard but isn't exactly practising. There's one other guy playing guitar (it's a small band). Anyway, this friend has anxiety and I understand why she...
Anonymous
(36-45) She's back after five years. What might she want? What do you think I should do?
Normally, I wouldn't make myself publicly vulnerable like this, but this time I can't really avoid it. Plus, I'm interested to hear your thoughts anyway. This will also be a bit long, so please be patient. If you read my...
u Ladies, It's Okay to Reject Me: My Self-Image Won't Shatter If You Do
She looked at me with sad, anxious eyes. It was as if she'd just told me I'd be dead in a week. It was the face of someone breaking catastrophic news to a fellow human, and terrified how he might react. And all she said...
Fathoms77
Editor Age: 47 What is the most beneficial emotion? How about the most destructive?
As human beings and the social creatures we are, we get able to discover and experience a lot of emotions throughout our lifes. I confess, I love emotions. I love to feel them. Not all of them make us feel good, though....
overthinkingmind
Explorer Age: 30 Why do black men appreciate plus sized women more than white men do?
This has been something I've observed for quite a while now. I am a plus sized girl, and I'm working on on losing the weight. However, when it comes to male attention, I've found white men to be disrespectful and rude, to...
theceejmachine
Xper 7 Age: 32 Goodbye 20s, Hello 30s
As of today, I am 30 years old. When I reflect back on my 20's I realize that there's so much I learned about myself. I decided to write a few of the many lessons I have learned throughout the whole decade that helped...
Stacyzee
Editor Age: 40 What is your greatest regret?
What is your greatest regret so far in life that you had control over? Have you worked to correct it going forward? Here's mine so you know what I'm thinking. I've been on dates with women in the past, and they were...
Girls are something else these days.. Can anyone else agree?
There's many types of girls nowadays. You have the ones who start drama to get attention, you have the ones who used to be caring and now they can careless about anything, the ones are who are claimed to be "too nice" and...
Weirdo1011D
Xper 4 Age: 26 Should I dump my boyfriend because he doesn't find me attractive?
This kinda bothers me but in the beginning when he was chasing me, he would tell me I'm beautiful and cute. That made me believed that I was beautiful and cute and it bolstered my self esteem so much. But a while ago, I...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do you love yourself when people keep mistreating, and abandoning you?
My ex recently dumped me and blocked me on FB. He told me he didn't love me anymore, move on, we're through. I couldn't believe it and I still can't. I have my flaws but I'm still a good woman or so I thought. I always...
Anonymous
(30-35) I think I'm starting to give up on women?
I've had many more negative experiences than positive experiences with women in my life up to this point. Back in high school, I dated this girl sophomore year who I saw smiling at me all the time and I asked if she liked...
Anonymous
(30-35) My Journey To Self Confidence
As a young girl growing up, it's natural to want to be liked by those you are constantly in company with. However, how is one supposed to like themselves if they are constantly made fun of by other children in school?...
Stacyzee
Editor Age: 40 How much can being short hurt a guy's self-esteem?
I'm a short woman (5 ft) dating a short handsome guy (5 ft 4). I think he's really good-looking, hot, fit, intelligent and charming. Yet, he sometimes has huge self-esteem issues that are hard to understand. He's very...
Anonymous
(36-45) Boobs and breastfeeding. My fiance says they're too small?
Okay so I'm pregnant with my fourth child but mine and my fiances first child together. This time I thought about breastfeeding but my fiance decided to make this comment. Me "I'm thinking I may try breastfeeding this...
Lovenotdrama
Xper 4 Age: 36 Need some opinions about a fight. Am I a bad person?
So, me and my boyfriend had a fight because he heard I had been talking about him to a mutual friend. Whenever Im upset, I need to talk about it, get it off my chest (I mean things like arguements we had, things he did...
Anonymous
(30-35) My Greatest Achievements This Passed Year
I've been posting some negative things, so I think it's time for something positive! I've accomplished a lot this past year, and I want to share my achievements with all of my fellow G@Gers. My photography I've found a...
lexythelou22
Editor Age: 27 What It's Like to Feel Truly Alone
This post isn't going to be an informational one like the majority of my others. This post will be one to get some things off of my chest, nothing else. I just wanted to describe how I'm feeling at the moment, and I was...
Anonymous
(25-29) For Any Single Guy (Or Girl)
There's enormous pressure for people to find partners in our modern society. If you don't, it makes you feel like there's something wrong with you, you are a loser, or you don't make time for "the important things in...
Anonymous
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