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My ex boyfriend is talking to any random girl coming her way and being physically interested in her. What does it mean?

So my ex and i broke ip like 5 months ago now and that too because he started hooking up with a random chick who is no longer in the picture now. I trued contacting him a lot in these 5 months to get back with him but...

Bindyathakor

Xper 4 Age: 31

Should I give this relationship more time or is it best for me to let it go even if I don't want to?

Hello all. Some advice or thoughts would be helpful. Thanks. So I've been with my boyfriend for over half a year and recently I popped the question 'do you think of us and the future'. His response-- Unsure if marriage is...

Anonymous

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Guys, Lied out of fear, how can I rebuild trust with my ex, be forgiven and maybe get a second chance?

I had been with my ex for a 1yr & 2 months, lived with him for 3 months before he broke up with me. He was perfect, we got along in every way imaginable. I made a mistake, I had an extremely abusive childhood, I had an...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Women's Day

Outcry for Sexual Abuse Victims: Where's the Outcry for Other Abuse Victims?

I wonder if the media and the world knew what they were getting themselves into when they let the allegations against Harvey Weinstein go public? After all, that is the catalyst that started this whole domino effect of...

loveisbeautiful

Editor Age: 39

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Health & Fitness

Do you, or have you had an eating disorder?

Do you currently, or have you ever had an eating disorder? If so, what do you think influenced it? My personal story is that I developed a negative body image at age 14 when my best friend and I had a fight and she...

Anonymous

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Health & Fitness

What do u think is wrong?

So I've been nauseous af and crampy and gassy headache backache oh and so tired I initially thought it was ibs but I was having normal bowel movements because of the cramps gas and nauseous and occasionally acid reflux...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend is always negative and a victim of circumstances?

I'm not really sure what kind of advice I'm looking for but I'm frustrated. We're both in our mid twenties. I have a full time job, going to college, and renting a house with my brother (fully capable of living on my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

I secretly want to get pregnant by my ex, should I tell him the truth?

When I was in a relationship with my ex I had so many pregnancy scares that it start to become recurring. Every month I would tell him "maybe Im pregnant" if my period was even a little late or if I thought I notice...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do you think about my sled perspective?

I've been struggling with low self-esteem for a while now. I've never thought of myself as an attractive guy, even though others have told me that I am. My concern for not looking good enough eventually become a full on...

Tothepowerof27

Xper 2 Age: 29

Is this really what relationships are like?

I always try to be a positive person, but somehow, the ones I love the most are the ones that drag me down. I've always been attracted to girl that have a positive personality, and I've been in three relationships with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

Is it okay for me to be on anti-depression/anti-anxiety meds my whole life?

I'm saying is it socially acceptable? I have a lifelong illness of pretty severe anxiety and depressive tendencies, unhealthily repetitive negative thought patterns.. since a trauma when I was 6 that caused a chain...

Electric_Dreams

Explorer Age: 34

Drugs and Other Dating Deal Breakers

I don't believe in just giving any old person a chance in the dating pool. I feel like you need to have some things as an individual that you really need to say no to. There is some obvious stuff like not dating a guy who...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Cognitive Distortions: 6 Mindsets That Can Be Detrimental To Your Relationship

Cognitive Distortions - Faulty Thinking Cognitive distortions are ways that our mind convinces us of something that isn't really true. They are exaggerated and irrational thoughts,and beliefs that are not based on...

Fitness-Fanatic

Editor Age: 37

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Lessons I Have Learned From Getting my Heart Broken

Every once in a while, you meet someone super special. And last year, I met someone cool. We met in July 2017 in a random pool hall on a college campus. He made an impression on me, but I didn’t realize we would cross...

JustAnotherGirlie

Editor Age: 30

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Building Love & Commitment in an Age Where Cheating is the Norm

Hi there. I don't write a lot so forgive me if this isn't that well written. Nothing here is the ultimate truth, it's just my perspective. I have a bachelor's degree in Psychology, but I am by no means an expert on human...

coastertroy

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How Dating a Soldier or Veteran is Different...

Let me start off by saying every person in the military no matter what branch has my full respect and gratitude. It was the moment I told my boyfriend about this poor guy me and my cousin saw while out on the town one...

Thatgurl058

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Shy Guys Are NOT Victims (Authored by a Shy Guy)!

The title says it all. Before I ramble on, here are some things about myself. I'm incredibly shy because I don't consider myself good looking, tall, and aggressive. Confidence is key and somewhere along the way I failed...

bellybuttonlint

Yoda Age: 42

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Getting Over Someone You Love

Heartbreak. Hard thing to get over, but it's possible. This is such a common topic that is everywhere in this world, not just on this site and pretty much everyone has experienced it but with different ways. This is...

soccerchick4eva

Editor Age: 27

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