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My grandma can't visit me ( her grandaughter) for more than 2 weeks because her excuse is that her grandkids need her.. Her grandkids are in their 30's with kids. She was then telling me that my cousins girlfriend told her to not go to a baby shower or else she won't talk to her just because that baby shower was hosted by a girl that my cousin use to like in middle school lol We are in our 20's now lol.. but she was always a family friend! So my grandma said she didn't go but wanted to go so bad! Why the heck does my cousins girlfriend care if my grandma goes? Last month my cousin hit his girlfriend bad and my grandma decided to keep it hidden and tried brainwashing the girl to not call the cops. My grandma won't stop telling me how good guys her grandkids are (my cousins) but they are thieves, hit women, cry babies.. etc. It's getting out of control My grandma is in her 70's and her health is bad :/ She cooks for 10 people who are in their 30's everyday. She can't handle that though. She's always in and out of the hospital because she shouldn't be cooking anymore! But my cousins don't care about her. My cousin even told me that he's going to take my grandmas house away becuase it's under his name. How evil is that? He doesn't even pay rent. My grandma says " aww he's living with me because he doesn't want me to be alone" but it's not because of that. I'm really worried. What should I do?