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My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year. The only person in his family that hates me is his father; I'll never be welcome in his presence. Luckily his parents are separated and live on different apartments. I can still come to this mother's place.

About 20 years ago, his father was wronged badly by a girl. She's one of those women many guys hate. That woman happens to be my mother. I don't even get along with her and hate her radical ideas, her hypocrisy, etc. She hasn't changed. She's still wants to find someone wealthy. She's a user. Unfortunately I'm guilty of looking like her when she was young and also sharing her first name and last name. She was a single mother (my real father bailed out) and named me like her.

My boyfriend's father freaked out (it made it even worse when he knew I shared her name too) upon seeing my appearances and wishes we stop dating. He thinks I have it in my veins, that it's in my blood, that I'm just like my mother... that I'll hurt his son just like my mother used him. Does our relationship stand a chance?

How would you feel if society is a vain world that (esp men) tells you ''You're only useful for beauty and youth, nothing else''? Those aren't skills and it tells me nothing about what you really like about me as a person or if you'll have kids with me and stay with me till old age.

They keep selling magazine about fashion models, old guys only with girls in their 20-30's, stories about men that divorced after 20 years of marriage just to replace their wives with a much younger woman, etc. So basically a wife would have to find a magic formula to stay young forever or delay the aging process. He's asking for something impossible. Meanwhile making more money and being successful is a possible goal (an actual skill), staying youthful forever is impossible.

Then several guys keep on wondering why do we get offended if they ask about our weight and only physical aspects questions or why do we focus too much on that. Because you're the ones saying that's the only thing we're useful for.