I know you guys will start off by saying that I know what I got myself into, it’s just a hook up blah blah blah but sometimes you can’t help it, you catch some feelings or develop a little crush and I know I’m also an idiot for it too probably but I caught myself smiling because of him a lot and by talking with him in person and I like his sense of humor, voice, the way he smells, his kindness, he was also being generous of me and getting to know me in a way but I know I also wouldn’t stand a chance with a hot younger guy like that because I’m me like a flawed curvy, quirky, weird, awkward, bubbly, caring, sweet, clingy girl and I just feel stupid like i don’t just go for looks either but I do hope to find a hot guy with a great personality someday who wants me like for me😞any advice?
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I don’t wanna stop talking to him tho exactly because he hasn’t been rude to me or didn’t ghost me like a lot of guys have or rejected me.. it’s complicated because he said he wasn’t looking for anything serious at this time but he said if it came then for sure. I asked him to get Starbucks with me on snap and waiting for his reply. I guess you can say I’m still single because I always get heartbroken 😞
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Update: he said yes he wants to get Starbucks with me!! I’m literally screaming but I’m gonna take it one step at a time even tho we got intimate but it’s nice that he’s up for coffee too not just getting to sex with me only.
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Well you have communicated with him so thats good. You asked him to join you for coffee... also good. But if he does not respond then move on. Its not to be. His silence is your answer.
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Anything can happen. Maybe he has feelings for you too. The coffee meet is a good idea. Maybe tell him your feelings the next time you hook up.
There's nothing wrong with wanting someone.
Is it mutual?
Hopefully you'll find out soon.
Good luck.
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It's true that maybe you should have tried to get to know him first instead of just hooking up, you can still get heart broken. But maybe it could work out with him if you give it time.
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