A crush on a guy I friendzoned?

[Anonymous]

A guy asked me out in a date but I friendzoned him and now I regret it what to I do? Like we talk on the phone every so often and face time but I don't know how to move forward?

[SueShe]

The friendzone has been created by girls or boys for a very specific and good reason.

All those that do not fulfill the conditions to be outside that friendzone are integrated in it and what pretty much concerns the entire humanity except for the lucky one that has been chosen by the target person to be outside of it and that has the favors of the person you are seeking.

You decided earlier to integrate that person into your friendzone and now, he is there to stay for good. No need to get him out just because he is a "crush".

Crushes come and go and you are much better off leaving him in there until the right person comes. It would be unfair to get him out of that zone just to put him back in a few days when you are done with him.

[Asker]

Yh but he clearly likes me as he flirts with me a lot

[HollyK21]

The ball is in your court now, since you’re the one who rejected, then you should be the one to make a move first vs trying to put him in a position to ask you out again.

[HollyK21]

To the 45+ blue anon disliked my comment, yet agreed with it (looks like I have you blocked since I can’t reply to your comment), did you misread what I said? How can you disagree with me saying the ball is in her court, then go on to say “if he asks you out again he’s a fool, no man is going to do that”? Woulsnt that mean she needs to be the one to ask if you don’t think he should do it, aka the ball being in her court? Make it make sense lol.

[Anonymous]

I'll agree with the first part of what @hollyk21 said, "The ball is in you court". But that's where it ends. If he ask you out again he is a fool. No self respecting guys is going to do that. At this point you're going to have to ask him. And at this point you may have to convince him. This is isn't about pride, it's about self respect. You're not a complete idiot because you see his worth. But you see it too late. Now you have to be humble. Don't want to do that? Then you really don't deserve him. The choice is yours.

[firenine909]

You have to do actions that push you into dating. Do something romantic, go somewhere romantic, go somewhere late at night, tell him how you really feel. Perhaps your friend zoned because he knows better than to convince you otherwise and still thinks you’re not interested

[Alex-Snow]

Just be honest and tell him that you answered in haste and a date sounds like a good idea.

[Asker]

Thankyou will do I said no bc I was dealing with a lot at the time but I’m in a good place now yk

[Alex-Snow]

How r things going? Any progress?

[Staximus]

You're going to have to be the one to ask him out on a date now

[Asker]

Really

[Staximus]

Yeah, he's not going to do it because you already shot him down https://youtu.be/UKwVvSleM6w?si=aEVxk3Ap066Mmpf-

[LiamS95]

You just have to draw cloer to him, give him the opportunity to realize you actually like him.

[Asker]

Thankyou

[LiamS95]

You're very welcome hun best of luck for you. If you ever want help or to chat dm me anytime

[LC75LC71]

Friendzone is the nice way of saying no pussy. You don't have to actually be friends..

[Asker]

I don’t wanna be friends with benefits with him😂

[LC75LC71]

Did ya actually read what I said?

[Abbycado]

Good job.

[In_Trance]

Live and learn