I have a crush on my boyfriend's friend?

[Marisss9]

I think I have a crush on my boyfriend's friend. We were drinking last weekend and then his friend wanted my boyfriend to get jealous so he hugged me tightly. He also flirts to me sometimes, but also is loyal to his friend. And I'm also loyal to my boyfriend. We didn't do anything else but we get along very well.

I don't know if he likes me also, but I guess he doesn't. What should I do?

[_Maya_]

You are 29 years old and asking what you should do about this situation? You do nothing because you are in a relationship. You claim that you are loyal yet here ya are asking what you should do about having a crush on someone. That isn't loyalty at all. You are at this point emotionally cheating on your boyfriend at the very least. You two shouldn't be together because you are anything but loyal. You are also going to most likely ruin their friendship. I just can't believe someone that is almost in their 30s can't figure this out on their own. It is pretty shocking to be honest with you. I know you won't like my opinion but it is the truth. Sometimes the truth hurts.

[rosemilk]

why? what triggered this? just a hug? does your boyfriend not hug you? is he lacking giving you the intimacy that you need? because that's what i feel like is happening, you are seeking someone to pay attention to you and give you a sense of closeness

does your boyfriend not care that his best friend is flirting with you? or does he not see it? i don't know this is a very sus situation

if you break up with your boyfriend to date your ex's best friend, that can seen as pretty low... i would recommend not doing that and seeing if you can fix any issues in your current relationship that is making you feel like this

[rosemilk]

also... your boyfriend will end up losing his best friend AND girlfriend. because that's the ultimate betrayal, to flirt with friends girlfriend, then date her? yikes

[Faith18letsgo]

Decide which one of them you’d rather have and then make your move. Do not cheat on your boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

This has to be a troll for you to be ignoring everyone.

[Tim2nice]

Go and tell him then

[Zestyassmf1997]

You should stop being a hoe.

[Anonymous]

Can you say, “she belongs to the streets!”

[kareka]

Dont wanna cheat on ur boyfriend right?

[Marisss9]

I'm not going to cheat on my boyfriend. This is just a difficult situation, you can't always control your emotions and so this happened.

[kareka]

Yea
So..
U wanna be with ur boyfriend and cut feelings with his friend
Or what u want

[Marisss9]

Yes I want to be with my boyfriend. I don't even think his friend is interested me at any kind, just as a friend. But at the same time he is making jokes, making my boyfriend jealous and flirting. I'm just feeling stuck in this situation now but staying with my boyfriend is the thing I want.

[kareka]

May u follow me?

[Anonymous]

Keep that a secret, lol.

[Dkc123]

For the streets.